You asked if these guys can be blamed for staring. The answer to that is…yes, they can. A momentary glance is one thing, but staring and especially TAKING A PICTURE of a woman’s private parts without her knowledge or consent, or worse, LIFTING UP HER DRESS when she’s performing onstage??! Despicable. Control yourselves, boys. You are not a slave to your impulses. Quit objectifying women.