I have broken down the elements of pickup to evaluate what I need to improve on, I thought I’d share it with you guys.
Evaluate your game from 1-10 with each element of pickup.
- Outcome independent
- Strong reality – Do you do what you want to do? or what others tell you to do? Do you find out things for yourself or rely on second hand knowledge?
- Abundance mentality – deep abundance – Do you communicate neediness? Do you chase? Are you too available?
- Self-motivated – Can you make yourself feel good on demand? Persistent?
- Self-esteem – ego vs self-esteem
- Core confidence – Do you have situational confidence or core confidence? Are you as good at a mall as you are at a night club? With friends or by yourself?
- Unstifled – Do you give a damn? are you self-conscious?
- Going out alone
- Going out regularly
- Approaching during day
- Approach whoever you want
- Know what you want
- Know who you are – Do you wear masks?
- Know what behaviour from women you will not accept (push)
- Know what behaviour from women you will reward (pull)
- Body posture
- Eye contact (don’t break it)
- Voice tonality (should be deep)
- Voice speed (don’t talk fast)
- Voice volume (be louder)
- Hand motions (leads to easier kino)
- Energy levels and matching
- Awareness (in the moment, and out of your head)
- Intuition and calibration – How well can you read women?
- Opening – situational vs direct
- Disarming – Biatch shields and Shiet tests
- Disqualifying yourself
- Cold reading
- Story telling
- Comfort building, rapport, and connecting
- Qualifying her
Behaviour and Logistics
- Push/pull – Do you always show interest?
- Attitude – Too positive or negative? too nice or too mean? do you have balance?
- Bootyume attraction – Do you feel you are not good enough for her?
- Kino/touching – Do you touch enough? or increase your touching when isolated?
- Reapproaching same set (even after being blown out)
- Leading – Are you asking her what she wants to do, or do you take charge? Is the burden on you instead of on her?
- Venue changing – Did you give her a reason to go somewhere else? your place? restaurant? another bar?
- Setting up a date – Do you set up a date before you get the number?
- Number closing
- Phone game
- Text game
- Winging – Do you distract the girl’s friend from your friend’s target?
- Logistics – her place/your place? How are you getting in? or move things forward? washroom? ally? Taxi or car?
- Sex and foreplay – Getting past last minute resistance
This list will help you determine what areas you need to work on. Hope it helps you. Cheers.