20 Life Changing Steps That Will Help You Shed That Nice Guy Image

October 11, 2012 | 2 Comments » | Topics: Dating

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A typical Nice Guy is someone who:

The alternative to being a Nice Guy is not to be an asshole, but instead to be someone who is self-assured, empowered, and goes after what they want. Here are 20 life changing steps you need to take to shed that nice guy image.

  1. Develop integrity; be honest and truthful in all interactions
  2. Don’t be afraid of the world or trying new things
  3. Learn to surrender yourself and let go of what you can’t change
  4. Do what YOU want to do instead of trying to constantly please others
  5. Learn how to receive and ask for help without feeling guilty or uncomfortable
  6. Recognize that you and everyone else is human, has flaws, and makes mistakes
  7. Stop trying to be perfect and flawless
  8. Stop seeking approval and external validation
  9. Learn to approve of yourself, and treat yourself to the things you deserve
  10. Stop building walls that prevent others from getting too close
  11. Stop trying to cover-up or distract attention from any perceived shortcoming
  12. Reflect on the childhood events and conditions that influence how you act today
  13. Set boundaries to prevent people from disrespecting or taking advantage of you
  14. Learn to be clear, direct, and expressive with your feelings
  15. Spend more time around men in order to develop your masculine energy
  16. Recognize that women reject nice guys because they perceive them as weak
  17. Learn to be more passionate, assertive, independent, and responsible
  18. Stop putting pressure on yourself to do everything ‘right’
  19. Don’t let fear of failure or fear of success stop you from living the life you’ve imagined
  20. Make a conscious decision to make your own rules and not settle for mediocrity

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