Could You Marry A Chick Who Never Wanted To Have Sex?

August 28, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Story


Jacob and Charlotte, both 23, are very much in love – but sex is not part of their relationship.

“We’ve been together for four years. We haven’t had sex for the last three of them – and we’re not planning to,” Charlotte says.

She is asexual, though Jacob is not.

“We sort of tried [having sex] to see what worked for the first six months. It really wasn’t making either of us happy.

“Jacob doesn’t want to be having sex with someone who doesn’t want to be having sex.”

For some men, this might have been a deal-breaker – but not for Jacob.

“I have a fantastic relationship with a wonderful person,” he says. “There are other ways to show affection.”

Others, however, are not always as understanding.

Charlotte says: “I don’t think I can have a conversation with someone about it without it being implied [not having sex is a] burden that’s been put on me, when actually it’s a choice I’ve made.

“It’s really sad how some people prioritise sex over happiness.”


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