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For All The Aspiring Pickup Artist Out There, This Story Will Put A Smile On Your Aspirations

October 28, 2011 | 9 Comments » | Topics: Dating, Story |

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I’m in a town I’ve never been to. I had to go to FedEx and found myself standing at the stop light waiting to cross. This girl asked if I knew how to get a taxi and I said, “Oh, I’m not from here.” I was going to just keep walking, but there was something there. I don’t know, it must have been me eyeing her up and down. She’s part Lebanese and Italian. She has Olive skin and green eyes. WAY OUT OF MY LEAGUE. But instead of being a little biatch and just awkwardly walking away I introduced myself and then said, “You know what? Follow me, I’ll find us a Taxi. I need to get somewhere too.”

I flagged down a taxi and we both got in. I made some jokes about both of us being foreigners to the city and then the guy who was driving us got upset because we got stuck in traffic, I said, “Oh, don’t worry about it man. I’m totally cool with being stuck in a car with a hot girl.” She shot me a smile and I said, “Hey do you think I could convince you to go to dinner with me tonight?” She was hesitant but then I said, “What do you have to lose, really? I mean it’s not like you have anything to actually do tonight, right?” She said yes and we were on our way. I let her change in my hotel room and I got showered and she dressed UP and we went to dinner. I treated her, we talked, we moved from superficial things to talking about our families and our lives. I asked her to tell me a secret and she ended up doing so. I made fun of her for being so nervous around me. We had a really good back and forth energy. I would make fun of her and then talk about something. I asked her about herself, and then she asked about me. I joked that she was actually a con artist and that she was seducing me at dinner so her con artist friends could break into my room and steal all of my clothes. And when we went back to get her stuff, she was going to stab me in the back with a syringe and as I was falling asleep, she would kiss me and the last thing I would see is her saying goodbye.

When we finished up at dinner she grabbed my hand and we walked up to my room. Everything was PERFECTLY set up. When we got inside she stood next to my bed and I said, “Can we skip the part where you stab me in the neck with a syringe?” she smiled and kissed me. I held her wrists in case she was a crazy murderess. But it turns out she wasn’t.

All of this JUST happened so excuse my rush. It was amazing and she is a really freaking awesome person. Thank you seddit. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Cliffnotes: Met a girl way out of my league, took her out, got past all the stupid awkward obstacles and ended up making out with her. She really really likes me.

UPDATES

She texted me last night when she got home. I forgot to mention that she was about to rape me, but had a 2 hour drive home and work early in the morning. She was in town because she spent the weekend with her friends and had left her car in another town over. Her message to me last night when she got home was filled with, “<3 <3 <3 <3” and “Thank you so much. You are so fcuking wonderful.” and other girly shiet like that. She wants to fly out to my state to see things. I’m freaking floored. I have no idea how this girl who is easily a 9 on my scale would want me. I’m seriously just this dorky, nerdy Asian engineer who sits around playing videogames and shiet all day long. She is half lebanese, half italian and has gigantic doe eyes that are green and a body that r/xsmall would murder me for. She’s basically some idealistic version of what I pretend I deserve. Whatever the case, I’m not going to question this shiet.

 

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Nice Guy Syndrome: What it is and why you should kill it with fire

October 24, 2011 | 33 Comments » | Topics: Dating |

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1. WHAT IS A “NICE GUY”?

A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you’re a great guy, but I don’t like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we’re not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we’re going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn’t work out, we’ll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.

This reasoning right here is the epitome of “Nice Guy” thinking.

Basically a “Nice Guy” is someone who wonders why if they are so nice and good to women, why they won’t reciprocate (sleep with them)? The reason is: because they don’t have to, and no force in the world can change that. Let’s now get into the nitty-gritty of what’s wrong with being a “Nice Guy” (hereafter referred to as an NG).

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How To Improve Your Game With Women Dramatically: The Abundance Mentality

September 23, 2011 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating |

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I just wanted to put out a short note on the Abundance Mentality vs. Oneism as I sit on my break at work reflecting on the past few nights in the field and even at work dealing with customers.

For all those that suffer from a oneistic mentality… You have to do whatever you can to drop it. I’m still pretty AFC and pretty beta in many ways. But, one thing that has definitely boosted my game and helped out with socially calibrating is switching over to the abundance mentality. I used to get a girl’s number and direct all my focus in her direction. I’d blow off girls I was lightly dating or talking to. I had even blown off girls who showed heavy interest because I would smother one single girl. It has boosted my confidence, it has lowered my stress, and in general, I’m a happier person because I’m not worrying so much about one girl. My friends have noticed a difference. I don’t get pouty when a girl pulls back. I don’t worry or freak when a # close doesn’t respond to a text. I don’t freak and respond right away when they respond, and I don’t blow up their phones when they don’t. I realize… There are more girls on the planet than I can meet in more than one lifetime… And I’m gonna be perfectly fine.

I hope you guys don’t see this as a pointless post. But it changed and is changing my life. I hope it can help do the same for you.

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Really Helpful Evaluation Of Your Game With Women

August 24, 2011 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating |

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I have broken down the elements of pickup to evaluate what I need to improve on, I thought I’d share it with you guys.

Evaluate your game from 1-10 with each element of pickup.

Inner game

Sub-communication

Communication

Behaviour and Logistics

This list will help you determine what areas you need to work on. Hope it helps you. Cheers.

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Man Skill #2321: How To Spot A Gold Digger

June 3, 2011 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating, How To |

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Gold Diggers are both male and female,despite the stereotypical view that they are usually female. Women are just as likely to find a male latch onto them for their money as a man is. Gold digging is also not restricted to heterosexual relationships. Some people love money and the trappings of success but have a lazy streak, so they would rather find a free ride than pay for their own.
The good news is that Gold diggers are not hard to spot but the bad news is that easy targets for Gold Diggers are even easier to spot! (more…)

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Attention Guys! Are You That Nice Guy That She Is Talking About In This Video?

April 20, 2011 | 2 Comments » | Topics: Dating |

Are you the guy that takes all of her bullshiet? Are you the guy that she walks all over? Are you the guy that lets her get away with anything she wants? Are you that guy that can’t pass any of her test? Are you that guy that she flakes out on? Are you that guy that coddles her and calls her and makes sure everything is all right? Are you that guy that apologizes for her all her baggage? Are you that guy that can’t say ‘no’ to her? Are you the guy that carries her purse?

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10 Important Lessons To Consider When Picking Up Women

April 7, 2011 | 1 Comment » | Topics: Dating |

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These lessons are taken from Reddit’s seduction area, which has valuabale tips, question and answers in helping you pick up women.

You have to get out of your comfort zone if you want to succeed in game. If you allow fear to run your life you will never get good.

Your physical appearance matters… but not even CLOSE to as much as you think. You need to look the best you can with the body you have, if you don’t like you she won’t either.

Don’t take anything personally. If you take rejection personally you will stop trying. Believe me these girls are just as fcuked up as you a lot of times. Stop taking shiet personally

Don’t assume anything negative. If you assume she hates you, you will freeze up, stop doing this.

Grow BALLS…. Stop crying about a blow out, stop reading seddit for hours hoping to find the perfect line and go try shiet. Advice is useless unless you do something with it. You don’t need to read more you need to try more.

Women like nice guys… They DON”T like WEAK GUYS. This doesn’t mean break out the Ed hardy shiet and pump iron it means set boundaries for acceptable behavior and don’t let her walk all over you, but don’t treat her like a slave… unless she wants that…

Creepy is the worst word in a girls vocabulary, learn NOT to be it.. If you are called it, game is over.

Don’t be afraid of girl friends… Friends who are girls?!?! Yup, they can teach you a lot about how women react.. Stop trying to fcuk everything that moves and learn from people

To win the game you have to be willing to lose the game… Most people play safe and bet small so when they lose it doesn’t hurt. Stop that BS and start putting yourself out there and taking risks. If you don’t go for the things that make you uncomfortable you will always be a pussy.

Self Confidence matters more then you know…If you don’t believe in you she won’t either and it will cause you to suck at everything you do. Fix this.. It’s more important than pussy.

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Your Honest Dating Advice Of The Day: How To ‘Win’ Back Your Girl

April 1, 2011 | 1 Comment » | Topics: Dating |

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Most of us realize that there is nothing we can do to ‘win’ or, ‘get back’ the man or woman of our dreams and for those of you who still believe you can win that special person back – are idiots.

Why would you want to WIN them back? Why would you want to do things that are over and above you just to impress them? As soon as your circus routine becomes tiring, s/he’ll get bored of you and leave your sorry ass all over again.

If it’s gonna happen, it’ll happen naturally. You can’t force anything. You should know this by now. Sure it’s tough to let go of your control, but you have to. Just let things unfold the way they are supposed to.

Anyway, for those of us who still have a tough time grasping this, the best way to ‘WIN’ him or her back is to carry on with your life.

It’s natural to get all goofy when someone leaves you. It sucks. Our first instinct is to want them back. We get lonely and we want to run to what feels familiar and comfortable. BUT keep in mind that you broke up for a reason. Maybe s/he got bored of you.. if that’s the case, why would you want them back? If they cheated on you why pine over them?

Get on with your life. 2 things will happen – s/he will come back to you, or s/he won’t. Either way the only thing you can do for yourself is keep living your life. The last thing they need to hear is your whiney, desperate voice.. asking ‘why, why are you leaving me…?’

Live a good life and show others that you are having a good time – regardless of having just been dumped.

The last thing you should do is walk around blubbering like a school girl. You have no choice but to stay strong and take care of yourself.

If anything your new care free attitude may even catch their attention and they’ll start to wonder why they left you.

You also may discover that you only want what you can’t have. That pain or desperation you are feeling is only because you just lost something. Once you start moving forward you may realize that they really never had much to offer you in the first place. Or maybe they did – but again, your only choice is to be strong and walk on.

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The Path To Getting The Girl Of Your Dreams Begins With Attitude

March 25, 2011 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating, Motivation |

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A couple weeks ago I wrote an article about getting the girl of you dreams, and although it served to get you in the mindset that getting the girl of your dreams wasn’t a fantasy reserved for characters in books and movies, it really didn’t detail out the necessary steps to get your dream girl. So lets begin. The first step is attitude. Everything begins with attitude. Whether you’re trying become an awesome surfer, a heralded writer or in this case a mack daddy, if you don’t have the proper attitude to begin with, you might as well give up, because you’re already dead in water. If you believe that you won’t and can’t meet an awesome girl that you can share your life with, you won’t. It’s that plain and simple. So the first step is to have the proper attitude and that requries you to ditch all the negativity and nurture a mindset that will aid you throughout your journey. There will be plenty of external obstacles in your way and you don’t need to create more, especially one’s that are self imposed. So get rid of the word ‘can’t’ from you vocabulary and go out this weekend with the mindset that you will and you can meet an awesome girl and that folks is all she wrote… for now. I’ll be back next week with step two. Have a good weekend everybody!

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Masters Of Their Craft: The Pickup Artists

March 11, 2011 | 2 Comments » | Topics: Dating |

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In my previous post, I had mentioned that the art of seduction is a craft and a skill that is developed through constant learning and practice. Similarly, playing a guitar like fcuking Slash doesn’t happen over night and takes hard work, dedication and the ambition to devote countless hours to hone that craft to acheieve such a level. I want to show you guys a few videos of pickup artist in the field, who have put in the time and effort to be the best of the best at seduction, in order to show you that attracting women is a skill that can be learned by anyone who is willing to put in the work.

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