Are we a lost generation?
I’ve heard millennials referred to as that, and I’m just curious what everyone else thinks. I wonder if that’s true, that everything going to pot in 2001 with the war, 2008 with the real estate market and the ensuing social/economic malaise that has followed would make us a lost generation.
I can’t help but look back and almost feel a sense of betrayal, but that seems almost too harsh of a way to describe it. The social and economic damage that my parents generation did absolutely derailed us from what I have gathered. I don’t blame them, but at the same time I just can’t believe a whole generation would be so careless to live as though there would never be a reason to worry about tomorrow.
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Re-wire Your Motivation with a Dopamine Detox
Struggling to find the drive to tackle your toughest goals? Feeling more drawn to video games and social media than studying or working on your side hustle? The culprit might be right between your ears—it’s called dopamine.
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How Porn is Rewiring Our Brains
Humans are hardwired to seek pleasure and avoid pain. It’s a primal drive that has helped our species survive and thrive. But in today’s hyper-stimulating digital world, could the pursuit of instant gratification through pornography be short-circuiting our natural reward systems?
Identity: The Key to Creating Lasting Change
Alright, folks, let’s talk about the power of identity when it comes to creating lasting change in our lives. James Clear, in his book Atomic Habits, hits the nail on the head when he says that our behaviors are a reflection of our identity. In other words, we act in accordance with who we believe we are.
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Harnessing the Magic of CBT: Practical Strategies for Reframing Your Thoughts and Rewriting Your Story
Humans are storytelling machines. We’re constantly spinning narratives about our lives, our failures, our relationships, and our insecurities. Sometimes, these stories are not just misleading—they’re destructive. They hold us back, keep us stuck, and prevent us from becoming the hero of our own journey.
But what if I told you that you have the power to rewrite those stories? That’s where Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) comes in. It’s not just some trendy buzzword or a fancy technique reserved for the therapist’s couch. CBT is a tool that you can start using today to transform the way you think, feel, and act.
Fear Should Be Your Compass
You’ve heard it all before, right? “Conquer your fears.” “Overcome anxiety.” “Banish your fear to the shadow realm from whence it came.” But here’s a twist in the narrative I want you to consider: Fear is not your enemy. It’s not a colossal beast to be slain or a dark shadow to be banished. No, fear is a compass — an invaluable one that points directly to the areas where growth is not just possible, but necessary.
How to Live Life on Your Own Terms
Alright everyone, let’s get real for a second. How much of your life do you spend worrying about what other people think? How often do you make decisions based on what society tells you you “should” do, rather than what you actually want to do?
If you’re like most people, the answer is probably “way too fucking much.”
But here’s the thing: Living your life based on other people’s expectations is a surefire recipe for misery. It’s like trying to hit a moving target while blindfolded and disoriented. You’ll never win.
So what’s the alternative? Simple. You need to master the art of not giving a fuck.
The Greatest Source of Our Suffering Are The Lies We Tell Ourselves
The stories you tell yourself have the power to make or break your life. I’m not talking about the little white lies we all tell to get out of an awkward conversation or spare someone’s feelings. No, I’m talking about the deep-seated narratives we cling to that keep us stuck, small, and hurting.
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A Guide to Shattering Your Limiting Beliefs
I’m about to tell you something that might sting a little. Ready?
Your biggest obstacle isn’t your boss, your bank account, or your bum knee. It’s that three-pound hunk of grey matter sloshing around between your ears.
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How Releasing Control Sets You Free
So often in life, we find ourselves grasping for control. We want to control our circumstances, other people’s actions and opinions, the outcome of our efforts. We believe that if we can just tighten our grip and micromanage every detail, we’ll finally feel at ease. But the truth is, the more we try to control, the more out of control we feel.