Motivation

The Path To Getting The Girl Of Your Dreams Begins With Attitude

March 25, 2011 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating, Motivation |

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A couple weeks ago I wrote an article about getting the girl of you dreams, and although it served to get you in the mindset that getting the girl of your dreams wasn’t a fantasy reserved for characters in books and movies, it really didn’t detail out the necessary steps to get your dream girl. So lets begin. The first step is attitude. Everything begins with attitude. Whether you’re trying become an awesome surfer, a heralded writer or in this case a mack daddy, if you don’t have the proper attitude to begin with, you might as well give up, because you’re already dead in water. If you believe that you won’t and can’t meet an awesome girl that you can share your life with, you won’t. It’s that plain and simple. So the first step is to have the proper attitude and that requries you to ditch all the negativity and nurture a mindset that will aid you throughout your journey. There will be plenty of external obstacles in your way and you don’t need to create more, especially one’s that are self imposed. So get rid of the word ‘can’t’ from you vocabulary and go out this weekend with the mindset that you will and you can meet an awesome girl and that folks is all she wrote… for now. I’ll be back next week with step two. Have a good weekend everybody!

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Are You A Man Or Are You Still A Boy?

March 14, 2011 | 2 Comments » | Topics: Motivation |

man vs boy

In a day and age when men are taught that masculinity is a sin, a generation of boys are growing up handicapped by the mixed messages presented to them and aren’t fully realizing their ascension into manhood.

What is it to be a man? What are the qualities that define being a man? How does one become a man? What happens if you grow up and don’t become a man?

Consider these questions when viewing David DeAngelo’s presentation On Being A Man. I posted the 7 part series from YouTube below and it’s not the entire presentation but it gives you a good start to understanding what it means to be a man and why it is important for you to become a man.

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The Caveman’s Manifesto On Having The Girl Of Your Dreams

March 11, 2011 | 3 Comments » | Topics: Dating, Motivation |

socially awkward

This one goes out to all my socially inept bretheren who have been unlucky in the area of picking up women. The weekend is upon us and it is prime time for all hot girls to ditch their business casual attire and to slap on some skank, some slut and some hoe-wear in an attemp to bait and lure men that they consider of value. And while you’re sitting in the corner of the bar, emptying your resouces into looking like a wallflower and waiting for her to approach, some douchebag from down the way is all up on the girl of your dreams and your twidling your thumbs wondering why she is not on your dick. The night ends with countless excuses and rationalization as to why you’re walking home alone and not boning that girl that gave you a smile and a glance earlier in the night.

Where am I going with this post you ask? This bullshiet of not having what you want ends here. I firmly believe with all my heart that we can have anything we want in life as long as we are willing to put out the work, the sweat and the tears to achieve it. If you want to be climb Mt Everest, you can do so. If you want to be a millionaire, you can be so and if you want to hook up with the super hot girl that was sitting at the bar, you can do so. But first we need to recognize that there is a process and that there is work involved in acquiring women of a high caliber. Some guys are blessed to have natural game but for guys like you and me we need to study, practice and apply the art of seduction.We must learn the rules of engagment. We must get rid of our old set of beliefs that have debilitated us for so long. We must develop our inner game and change our frame of reference. We are the prize, not they. We must be men and not boys.

Is it worth it? All the work, all the studying, all the time spent in the bars and the clubs, all the rejections, all the fake phone numbers, all the times you will be placed in the friend zone, all the uncomfortable silences and all the awkward dates. Is it really worth it? To share a life with the women of your dreams, who fits all your criteria and not settling on the girl that you weren’t really interested in, but who actually gave you the time of the day….I think so.

 

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When You Get There, This Is The Yacht Party That You Should Be Having

March 10, 2011 | 1 Comment » | Topics: Motivation |

birdman yacht party

Here’s some more motivation to kick your ass in gear to do what you want to do in life and do it well enough that you can buy a yacht, park it on South Beach, load it up with tons of hot bikini clad chicks, alcohol, beer party favors and a few of your closest buddies and have a damn good time while you cruise towards the susnet.

 

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Stop Making Excuses And Start Living The Life You Always Dreamed Of

March 2, 2011 | No Comments » | Topics: Motivation |

making excusesThis post coincides with the last post about the fcuking guys with the love dolls as girlfriends. It’s a Nike commercial about life and the excuses people make throughout life to not be what they want to be and do what they want to do in life and have what they want to have in life. I’m no Michael Jordan or Steve Jobs or Jay-Z but I read enough interviews with people doing their thing in life to know that successful people don’t make excuses. If there’s not enough time in the day, they make time. If they don’t have enough skill to perform a certain task, they work and work and work until they acquire the skill to perfom the task. If they don’t have the knowledge, they go to school. I’m thoroughly convinced that you can be anything, do anything and have anything in life as long as your willing to put in the work, the blood, the sweat and the tears to achieve it. So what’s your excuse?

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Getting Into The Mindset Of Greatness: Spike Lee’s ‘Doing Work’ Will Give You Some Insight Into The Mind Of Kobe Bryant

February 22, 2011 | 1 Comment » | Topics: Awesomeness, Motivation |

kobe bryant doing work

Love him or hate him, Kobe Bryant is undoubtedly the best palyer in basketball today and will be mentioned in history along with the likes of Michael Jordan, Wilt Chamberlin, Oscar Roberston and Magic Johnson. Besides his talent and his stats and all his championship rings, the reason I have an unlimited amount of respect for him is his passion for the game and the amount of hard work he puts into perfecting his craft. I posted below the entire ‘Doin Work’ documentary by Spike Lee to help you understand the level of passion that Kobe Bryant has for the game of baseketball and although we may never be great basketball players we can apply or hope to apply that same level of passion in our purusit of our dreams.

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