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23 Psychological Hacks To Help You Get The Advantage In Social Situtations

May 9, 2014 | 4 Comments » | Topics: main |

Have you always wondered about the subtle things you can do to totally improve the outcome of a situation? It is something that I have constantly been thinking about. After spending some time searching up on the subject I came across some incredible bits of advice from a Reddit discussion. From this, I’ve pulled out and organized users’ top advice on how to improve your outcomes.

  1. When you first meet people try to notice their eye color while also smiling at them. It might be because you look for a second or two longer, but all I can tell you is that people really respond to it.
  2. Pay attention to people’s feet. If you approach two people in the middle of a conversation, and they only turn their torsos and not their feet, they don’t want you to join in the conversation. Similarly if you are in a conversation with a coworker who you think is paying attention to you and their torso is turned towards you but their feet are facing in another direction, they want the conversation to end. You should check out Carol Kinsey Goman’s research on these types of things in the workplace.
  3. Foot-in-the-door phenomenon. People are more likely to agree to do a task for you if you ask them to do something simpler first. (Gradual Commitment… makes people them think you like them)
  4. Alternatively you ask them to do an unreasonable task, and they’ll say no, so then you ask for what you wanted, a much more reasonable task, and they’re more likely to agree that way.
  5. If you ask someone to do you a small favor, cognitive dissonance will make them believe that because they did that favor, they therefore must like you. (Ben Franklin)
  6. If you ask someone a question and they only partially answer just wait. If you stay silent and keep eye contact they will usually continue talking.
  7. Chew gum when you’re approaching a situation that would make you nervous like public speaking or bungee jumping. I can’t remember where I heard it but apparently if we are ‘eating’ something in our brains trip and it reasons ‘I would not be eating if I were danger. So I’m not in danger’. Has helped calm me a few times.
  8. Avoid the sidewalk shuffle by looking intently over the person’s shoulder, or between people’s heads in a group. Your gaze shows them where you’re going. They’ll drift toward the opposing side / create a gap to avoid you.
  9. When you’re studying/learning something new, teach a friend how/about it. Let them ask questions. If you’re able to teach something well, you understand it.
  10. People will remember not what you said but how you made them feel.
  11. For interviews I recommend altering your psychological state beforehand. Tell yourself “I’ve known these people all my life. We’re old friends catching up. I can’t wait to see them”. Visualize the experience, shaking hands, making eye contact, having conversation. What things can you not to wait to tell them? Hold an open pose…stand with your legs apart, hands on your hips, and shoulders back while doing this and SMILE. This may sound cliche but you are in charge of your own psychological state and the power of suggestion is strong.
  12. If you get yourself to be really happy and excited to see other people, they will react the same to you. It doesn’t always happen the first time, but it will definitely happen next time.
  13. My personal favorite is when people are angry at me; if I stay calm it’ll get them even angrier, and be ashamed about it after.
  14. If you have a warm hand when you shake somebody’s hand, you immediately become a more desirable person to get along with.
  15. People have a certain image of themselves and will fight tooth and nail to cling to it. Use this information wisely. You can make people dislike you by attacking their self-image.
  16. False attribution of arousal. When you take somebody out on a first date, take them somewhere exciting that will get their heart beating. e.g. roller coaster or horror film. This gets their adrenaline up. It makes them think they enjoy spending time with you rather than the activity.
  17. The key to confidence is walking into a room, and assuming everyone already likes you.
  18. The physical effects of stress (increased breathing rate, heart rate ect.) mirror identically the physical effects of courage. So when you’re feeling stress from any situation immediately reframe it: your body is getting ready to do courage, it’s Not feeling stress.. A great example of cognitive reframing, researchers found that you do better when you appraise a stressful situation as a challenge, not a threat
  19. Refer to people you’ve just met by their name. People loving being referred to by their name, and it will establish a sense of trust and friendship right away…
  20. If you make the biggest smile you can, you will automatically feel happier
  21. The moment your alarm wakes you up, immediately react by sitting up, pump your fists and shout “YEAH!”
  22. Always give your kid a choice that makes them think they are in control. For instance when I want him to put his shoes on I will say ,”do you want to put your star wars shoes on or your shark shoes on?”
  23. People are extraordinarily aware of their sense of touch. If someone (a member of the opposite sex?) ‘Accidentally’ rests their knee on yours, let’s say, they know it’s there.


Joe Rogan’s Speech Upon Receiving His Black Belt In Jiu Jitsu

May 9, 2014 | 3 Comments » | Topics: Life |

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Pictures Inside Dr Dre’s New $40 Million Mansion

May 9, 2014 | 2 Comments » | Topics: Interesting |

dr dre to buy Tom Brady and Giselle Bundchen mansion

As you might have already read, Apple is gearing up to buy Beats Electronics for $3.2 billion and if this deal does goes through, it would catapult Dr Dre into billionarie status and by the look of his recent purchase of Tom Brady and Giselle Bundchen’s $40 million Los Angeles mansion, this acquisition is a done deal. Lets take a look at where hip hop’s first billionaire will be laying his head at night.

The home is reportedly 18,700 square feet, featuring five bedrooms, nine bathrooms, a six-car garage, as well as a lagoon-shaped swimming pool, a gym, a wine cellar – and a moat.

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Girls With Stubbed Toes Making Faces (18 Pics)

May 9, 2014 | 3 Comments » | Topics: Funny Pictures |

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This Is What It Looks Like Inside NFL Draft War Rooms

May 9, 2014 | 1 Comment » | Topics: Sports |

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Reaction GIFs Up In This Beeyotch Yo!

May 9, 2014 | No Comments » | Topics: GIFs |

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When she said I could finish inside her

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Holy Smokes, This Redhead Is Absolutely Beautiful!

May 9, 2014 | 2 Comments » | Topics: Babes |

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Awesome Stuff Around The Internet

May 8, 2014 | No Comments » | Topics: Links |

Watch this man transform garbage into homes for the homeless – Ned Hardy

Man Accused Of Raping 3-Year-Old Girl Gets Penis Chopped Off By Angry Mob In Brazil – Elite Daily

WWE Diva Nikki Bella is doing awesmoe things on her Instagram – Guyism

Uganda Tries The First Men Charged Under Anti-Gay Law – VICE News

21 Awesome Purchases made when drunk – Bro My God

A collection of useful manly skills all guys should know – Linkiest

Celebs and their stunt doubles – Leenks

Lady Gaga completely nude in this magazine (nsfw) – Drunken Ninja

Awesome podcast of why MLMs are a scam – The Art Of Charm

Selena Gomez Shows Some Fishnet Cleavage – Celebrity Ninja

Throw Back Thursday: Selena Gomez in Mexico in a bikini – G-Celeb

Jessica Alba looks good in a bikini – Celeb Slam

Game Of Thrones Face Swap Gallery Is Awesome – World Wide Interweb

Karruceche Tran should definitely be on your radar – The Blemish

25 Manly Drinks You Can Order At a Bar Or Make At Home – Classy Bro

I wouldn’t mind living in this bachelor pad – RSVLTS

The 23 Most Impressive Dynasties In America Today – Business Insider

Hottest Photos Of Jennifer Lawrence (24 Pics) – Double Viking

What a Bad Decision Looks Like… Forever – Radass

This Ariel Atom is a go-kart on steroids – Hi-Consumption

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