Regret is something you’ve got to just live with, you can’t drink it away. You can’t run away from it. You can’t trick yourself out of it. You’ve just got to own it. I’ve disappointed and hurt people in my life and that’s just something I’m going to have to live with. If you made the basic decision that even in spite of your crimes, you are worth persevering, that it’s worth trying to get good things for yourself, even though you might not deserve them, then you, you eat that guilt and you live with it. And you own it. You own it for life.
- Anthony Bourdain
Becky Lamb is freaking gorgeous – Ned Hardy
The Greatest Animal Photobombs Of All Time (28 Pics) – We Rule The Internet
These Girls Seems Like Fun – Knowd
What Did Your Favorite Films Look Like Before VFX? – Crowd Ignite
SH-60B Seahawks of HSL-51 “Warlords” in high-res (40 HQ Photos) – The Brigade
How To Be What Women Want – The Man Up Blog
Miley Cyrus Pumping Gas Proper of the Day – Drunken Stepfather
Kendall Jenner Sells Her Wares In A Thong Bikini – Celeb Jihad
8 Amazing Abandoned Mega Structures – Linkiest
Damn this girl is ‘well rounded’ – Double Viking
Michael Jordan dropped $10 million on his wedding – Celeb Slam
Amanda Bynes Is Close To Getting Naked On Twitter Now – IDLY
Candice Swanepoel in All Black Lingerie – G-Celeb
Brooke Evers Don’t Miss Out On Her – Bro My God
Little Girl Superheroes Get Animated – Unreality Mag
Wonderful Butts To Get Us Through Humpday (15 Pics) – Regretful Morning
She’s Uncoachable: Nicole Harrison Leaves Nothing Off the Table – Uncoached
The 10 Most Ugly-Booty Sports Uniforms You’ve Ever Seen – The Smoking Jacket
Gemma Merna vs. Helen Flanagan: Better Display of Talent Bootyets – Moe Jackson
Think of a girl that you like as a gunshot victim lying in the street. Do they care if you are a nice guy? Don’t think so. They want to know if you can do surgery.
But does that mean that I can only get girls if I’m rich and have money?
"No, your brain jumps to that conclusion so you have an excuse to write off everyone who rejects you by thinking that they’re just being shallow and selfish. I’m asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don’t say that you’re a nice guy — that’s the bare minimum. Pretty girls have guys being nice to them 36 times a day. The patient is bleeding in the street. Do you know how to operate or not? "Well, I’m not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!" I’m sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don’t have, then back the fuk away from the patient. There’s a witty, handsome guy with a promising career ready to step in and operate."
Saying you’re a nice guy is the bare minimum. "Saying that you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick. You’re like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is ‘The actors are clearly visible.’"
You don’t have to be good looking to attract girls, aside from meeting a minimum standard. (hint go to the gym at least 3 times a week for God’s sake, especially if you’re young and have the time) You have to offer something else to compensate for that though; remember that girls have guys being nice to them all the time. So are you funny? Are you top of your class? Do you have tons of interesting stories? Do you have cool friends? Do you invite her to interesting events?
Even ignoring all that. You say you’re nice. How do you show it? Do you volunteer at charities? Do you talk to that weird kid and invite him to sit with your friends? Do you stand up for the guy being bullied? Do you hug the ugly girl who just lost her mother? Being a GENUINE kind person is far different then being a "nice guy"
Oh no you didn’t!