The Daily Man-Up: How to Be Less Socially Awkward

November 1, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Self-Improvement

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Growing up, I was never a particularly social or outgoing guy. I wasn’t one of the “popular” kids in high school or college and I leaned toward an introverted personality type. Quiet, reserved, and a little shy.

For most of my early 20’s, I found myself just nodding along and agreeing with what other people said because I’d never put in the effort to develop my own unique personality.

Whenever I was talking with someone and a third person entered the conversation, I quickly faded into obscurity while everyone else joked and chatted.

I assumed the role of the “Silent Third Wheel”, a sort of spectator in social settings…someone sitting on the sidelines rather than acting as a leader of conversations and interactions.

As I grew older, I began to realize that my introverted and often socially awkward tendencies were negatively affecting my dating life and preventing me from meeting the women I wanted.

Not to mention its detriment to my professional life and business opportunities.

And throughout it all, I couldn’t help but wonder, “Why am I so awkward?”

I knew that being socially awkward was holding me back from living the life I wanted and after taking a hard look in the mirror and acknowledging my weaknesses, I committed to learning how to be less socially inept and taking action toward the life I wanted.

Little by little, I began to improve. I noticed myself being and feeling more extroverted. Conversations started to flow more smoothly. And when I started to taste real social success…my life changed forever.

For the first time in my life, I built an abundant dating life filled with women I wouldn’t have even talked to the year before. I started making more and more powerful business connections and acquiring mentors who helped me achieve wild success in my entrepreneurial endeavors.

But most importantly, I developed a greater sense of personal identity and self-confidence.

I never became the “Life of the party” and that was never my goal. But I did learn how to assert myself in social situations with men and women, connect deeply through stimulating conversations, and leave everyone I interacted with better off than before.

And today, I’m going to teach you how I did it.

This guide will teach you step-by-step how to be less socially awkward and more persuasive. You’ll learn the exact systems and strategies that took me from a social zero to her, and, if you take action…I promise, your social life will never be the same again.

Read the rest of the article at Knowledge For Men



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