1. I would describe it as a kink, really. There’s a certain reaction I’m looking for from the recipient and it just makes me feel good. I’m rarely looking for sex to be the end result of it–i think I just enjoy the reaction and it makes me feel like someone’s impressed with me and has a sexual desire for me. I generally send it to girls that I’ve hooked up with previously and try to “make them miss me,” I suppose. Not sure if it sounds pathetic but whatever. It looked like this thread was missing actual testimony so there you go.
2. It works like 1% of the time. Example:
This girl had been texting me on and off for awhile and, like a lot of women, she just stopped and wasn’t texting back and seemed kinda distant for a couple weeks. Well i figured why not take one last shot. Sent her a dick pic and said “let’s meet”. She said ” what time and where”.
I felt like i won the lottery
3. I can’t speak for straight men, but I’m a gay guy and will occasionally do this. To be honest, I realize it’s a turn off to many – but to some it is a quick and easy way to gauge interest. My dad taught me to cast a wide net instead of focusing on my favorite fish.
4. I did it one time. Not sure what I thought was going to happen. Maybe I thought I had a good looking dick and wanted to show it off, maybe I thought I would get nudes from her in exchange, I don’t know. But, the laughter and ridicule of my 70’s bush was not what I was expecting. Then I found out she showed it to her 80 year old coworker. Never again. Never again.
5. I did this once. I was on one of the smaller gone wild subreddits, and I got really turned on so much that it felt like my animal instincts kicked in and I didn’t know what I was really doing. During the picture taking and sending process it was all my subconscious working.
I mean, I didn’t think this while doing it but only after masturbating. You all know the feel after you masturbate you think more rationally? Yeah it’s like that.
6. I sent a dick pic once. It was too a woman I was already sleeping with. But I found after I sent it she wanted it more. She used to tell me she would look at it all the time and play with herself. I’m not with her anymore but she did tell me she still has it and still enjoys touching herself to it. Makes me feel good I guess.
7. I’ve stopped doing it for many years now, but I used to do it all the time. It’s difficult to describe what I was thinking when I did it? But I largely had poor self-esteem and desired to be “wanted” sexually. It’d work often enough that it created a nasty feedback loop, too.
As time went on though, I did feel guilty about the people who obviously weren’t interested. And info on me doing it got out in an old social circle of mine; bad luck on that one. It went from a problem to a worse problem.
I finally stopped doing it because the validation I was getting from it was shallow and wasn’t worth everything attached to it. Since that time, I’ve had a few women I’ve hit it off with actually ask me to see my junk, and I’ll be honest, it makes me feel a little uncomfortable. Can’t shake the memories of those times which I do regret.
But it really was more of a misguided replacement for trying to make actual meaningful connections with people I think, which I felt I wasn’t “good enough” for. Overall, I’ve got a lot healthier take on relationships in general now that I’m older, let alone internet grabass. Which I’m thankful for.
8. I used to travel a lot for work. I’d be in different cities for a day or two and then have to move on.
My options were jerk off, try to talk up some random girl with limited success or send dick pics to girls who I was attracted to in the city and talk to the girls who were interested in what they saw.
While it’s not 100% successful it works more often than people will admit. Girls who don’t go for it are loud about being against it. Girls who do go for it don’t really brag about how they blew a stranger who sent them a dick pic. But those girls definitely exist.
9. I have done this many times in the past and especially when I was younger. I believe the reason was that I had a large member but weak social skills with women. It was like a trump card that worked on occasion. It’s been years now as I have developed into a more confident adult and have come to realize the type of women that behavior attracts.
10. Have sent 1 dick pic without it being expected and never again. Was extremely drunk and thought she’d find it flattering. She did not. She likes to bring it up to embarrass me from time to time in front of all my friends 🙁
I mean, like 3 months later we hooked up, but I’m pretty certain the dick pic only slowed my progress. In case anyone was wondering, I’m very, very average. Not much to brag about. Just thought she’d take it as a compliment in my drunken state.
11. When I send dick pics to girls its because I want sex. Many will be horrified and insult me, ignore it, but some will message back and say yup, where and when.
I dont want a relationship, and I sure as hell dont want to go through the crap of being nice and polite and false to these poor women, who I would essentially be stringing along for the sole basis that I can have sex with them.
Go ahead, insult me, call me a creep – but atleast I’m being honest with my intentions and not stringing you along for weeks fully knowing our relationship is non existent.
12. For me it was just the thrill of a girl looking at my dick. As a black guy, I have come to enjoy sending it to the sorority type white girls. Some just ignore it, some go off on me but some are interested. I have even sexted back and forth with my friend’s sister (she didnt know it was me) and she’s the last person I thought would be receptive. She always gave me the cold shoulder but it turns out she’s a freak. I think a lot of it just stems from girls like that not being very receptive to me under usual circumstances but being ok to talk about my dick or even trade pics. I cant really explain it.