We are all busy. We all work. Some work long hours. Some have kids. Some are single Parents. Some of us work 70 80 hours a week. Whatever your situation is. Someone if they care about you enough will make the time for you.
I have had many girls that say maybe next week. One particular girl would say maybe when things get less busy. Or I will let you know. She did work a lot granted. But had the time to go with family and friends. She even said she was too busy to talk on the phone and had to schedule it. Which she never did. The reality Is she was never that busy to do the things that matters to her. Even though she said we had a relationship. It was one sided.. she never made the time for me.
I made the time for her and if I became busy, I never said maybe next week I would say how about Tuesday next week?
The point being people make the time for each other. It takes a few seconds to send a text to someone. To say hey I’m busy but i will get back to you.
I walked away from her and kept the door open by saying when your free let me know or give me a call. She never did get back to me.. I felt hurt for a while. But realized she didnt care to make the relationship work and at least make some time for me…
I recently met another girl. Educated. Smart. Is a Senior Vice President. Responsible for multiple companies. Works 70 hours a week and travels for work . She Is a single mom. Still had time to text me. Call me. Even if it’s for a few minutes when she can.
Apologizes when she can’t make a date and offers to reschedule it. We were supposed to go out over the weekend. She had to travel for work and is back today. She asked if it was ok to meetup tonight after her work. after she worked all day. And still wants to see me later tonight.
I can truly say people will make the time to see you. And if they can’t they will give you a valid reason and find a time when they can see you.