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Guys who always end up as “just a friend” don’t realize how small their windows of opportunity are.
They spend months chatting a girl up at school or work before inviting her to do something together. They message for weeks in online dating thinking it’ll make her feel more comfortable to meet up. They don’t go for a kiss for the first few dates and often don’t get that chance ever again.
Most women know if they’re attracted (or potentially attracted) to someone much quicker than that. I’m talking about the first few times interacting with a guy.
Once she decides she’s into you, you have limited time before that fizzles.
Because waiting frustrates her, makes her feels like you’re not interested, and gives her the opportunity to find someone else. Attractive women have lots of interested men.
It also shows her you don’t have the qualities she thought you did. A confident man has the courage to take the next step. And when you don’t, that’s a big turnoff in itself.
There are exceptions, of course, like when a woman’s personal or religious values prevent her from moving too quickly. But you’ll find that out by moving forward and letting her communicate her boundaries.
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