Every nice guy on earth has a tendency to hide their interest in women. They want to seduce a girl indirectly. They want covert methods to make a woman fall in love and think that if they show their interest upfront, they might seem desperate or get rejected.
And look, to be fair, that’s a possibility. Sometimes that will happen. But it’s a risk worth taking. In fact, it’s a must. You have to take that risk. Like the typical nice guy, if you start to hide your interest in women, you will be put into the friend zone as most nice guys do.
After all if a woman has little or no idea that you like her, but you seem like a good guy… The only logical thing to do is make yourself a friend. There’s no advantage in being indirect. If you’re direct about your interest in a woman… If you let her know that you’re into her and you’d like to date her… One of two things will happen. Either she’ll be cool with it and agree to a date with you. Or she’s gonna say no. Both are a win.
I mean, if she says yes, it’s obviously a win. But even if she says no, it saves you so much time and energy. You can simply move on and focus on a different girl.
Nice guys don’t understand this. They choose to be indirect, fall into the friend zone and then hopelessly try to climb out of it and win over the girl. It’s a losing strategy. And one you should never use.
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Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity, you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.