Dating a nymphomaniac ( or hyper-sexual – a REAL one) as a guy is completely exhausting.
Its real fun at first, but then after a while you see why it can be seen as an addiction. And even that’s cool. But after a month or two you have to establish some norms or boundaries to make it sustainable, (in my experience, after 8 months).
My nympho girl at first seemed just like any other girl. Not trashy or slutty looking, actually the opposite. We went on a few dates, at first I thought she was juat nervous…once during a walk in the park we sat on a bench, and she sat straight and stiff and just looked straight ahead.
It was the third date and we clicked before so I thought weird, put put my arm around her and gave her a kiss on the cheek. I also put my hand on her upper leg and noticed her crotch was super hot I could feel it on my hand (she was wearing a skirt). She squeezed my hand but otherwise just sat there staring forward.
Later she told me she had to do that to control herself, she wanted to bend over the bench.
So after that third date…..most people have sex once maybe a couole times then cuddle and what not. We had sex 12 times in 6 hours….the last time I literally passed out with her on top of me …but then get this- she grabbed some energy drink powder from her purse pulled my head up where I wake up a little, then she dumped it in my mouth hoping I could last once more. Nope I just flopped. Then at about 5am she wakes me up and we have sex a couple times in bed and once in the shower before I go to work. ..
So yeah she would get mad if I brought up, maybe a picnic in the park or something. She would actually get mad. So we go to a big park for a picnic and she leaves everything in the car except her “f-blanket” locks the door and puts the keys in her crotch with a big smile. So pretty much, well everything you do, there must be sex, and if not like 5 times or whenever you pass out like every night. And she even has enough energy to go running or run a freaking marathon ffs. And it doesn’t matter if she has friction burns or a messed up ankle she’ll want lots of sex right after in the shower!
Finally I had too much and she kept getting mad so I just broke it off. I’m not the open relationship type AT ALL, but I honestly hope she would find someone that would work for her sex wise. I’m not sure if this is related to nympho stuff, but she would just talk about herself and not really care about things about me (non-sex stuff,) Anyway..
So then she texts me after a bit, more to tell me it was a mistake, then a few we weeks after that.
So now we are back together and I said why not move in. I did make it pretty clear for boundaries and laid out what I was going to do, and for her not to be mad about it. She is still a little mad sometimes and she lets me know and we talk about it, its just more mellow now
And I know what you are thinking, oh shes totally sleeping around etc. No. She is really a into me. Ive read that means shes a focus nympho. Like when she goes out with friends (oh I love those times lol), she’ll want me to send her selfies of masturbating or something. Once I sent her a short video clip of me in the shower and she immediately came home ….lol
So, while those are some hard parts, there are a lot of neat parts like:
– She doesn’t “attack” me most the time, alot of times she wants me to initiate, (of course she will drop non-subtle hints)
– She is not into foreplay. Shell have an orgasm 60 seconds into sex, so she never complains about things like “I need this or that.”
-She is ready to go 24/7, and is always happy to. Doesn’t matter when, where, and every time its like I gave her a diamond ring or something.
– You get really comfortable talking about sex and what you like and etc. and doing different (sometimes way different) things. I would never talk about these things with anyone else, but with her its comfortable. Probably b/c we do it so much its like breathing
– She never uses sex as a weapon or denies sex to get something.
-She doesnt get mad really about anything (except not having sex, or missing an opportunity to have sex).
She’ll never get fat, she expends more energy per day than a nuclear bomb. I have seriously not seen her tired ever, except when she was really sick and then I said lets have sex and she was all full of energy again.
She gets lots of free stuff, or talks people into giving us free stuff. We went on a trip once and she got us a free car rental.