The mark of a fully mature man is that he is a very centered, very balanced man.
He is someone who is very sure of himself and very comfortable in his own skin.
He doesn’t need outside validation, doesn’t need to show off to the world, and doesn’t need to prove himself.
He is someone who have faith in himself and knows what he want, and without any excuses, he goes after his goals.
He has discipline, he has structure, he has plans, he has actions. But he also understands that some things are just out of his control, and he doesn’t blame anyone or anything when things go south.
He is someone that seeks solution when problems are presented, and doesn’t waste time drowning in negativity.
When he is tired, he rest, he doesn’t whine or complain or blame. And after he is done resting, he is up again doing what he needs to do.
But he is also humble and down-to-earth, his feet is firmly rooted on the ground. He is a very, very quietly confident man but in no way, shape, or form is he a smug man. Smugness is a sign of insecurity after all.