When someone really likes you, it’s effortless. They text you right away or soon after, they will be excited to make plans to meet you, they’ll flirt and ask you questions, they’ll seem interested in your life.
What they won’t do is be unsure whether they’re free, leave you on read or wait hours to reply, not ask questions and give you short replies.
- They don’t make you think you’re not “good enough” for them.
- They don’t think “we should date other people too”.
- They don’t say “I’m not ready to be in a relationship because I need to work on myself”
- They never make you feel like you’re their last choice when they don’t have anything better to do
- They will make plans with you. They will give you a time and a place, not just “Let’s see if I’m avalaible tomorrow”
- They compliment you
- They actually care about what you have to say
If they want to be with you, they’ll be with you. There’s no ifs and buts. There’s no mysteries in it. If they’re acting like they don’t care that much, or if they’re playing hot and cold they’re not really into you. You’re just a convenient source of attention. Don’t let them waste your time.