I’m a 24M who has always dreamed of having a nice bungalow and luxury cars. I work and make good money, but I don’t have any hobbies or anything else going on in my life. I’ve never been in a relationship and don’t have many friends. On weekends, I work on pending tasks or think about the next billion-dollar ideas.
Recently, I’ve been observing other people’s lives. It seems like everyone has something meaningful in their life, whether it’s painting, Zumba, bike rides, or being in a relationship. With (FOMO), I tried activities like cycling and swimming, but I didn’t enjoy them. I thought these were huge efforts with no materialistic gains, so I quit.
So, I have accepted myself and continue with my old routine. We’ll see what happens.
Am I still missing something?
First off, let me say this: You’re not broken for wanting a big house and luxury cars. Those are your goals, and it’s okay to have goals that involve material success. But here’s the thing—your dream of owning a bungalow and driving luxury cars isn’t the problem. The problem is the hollow feeling that creeps in when you look at other people’s lives and wonder, Am I missing something?
And let’s be honest: you probably are.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting nice things, but the trouble starts when your life revolves around stuff. Luxury cars and a beautiful house might feel like big accomplishments, but once you achieve them, what’s next? Without something deeper—relationships, purpose, connection—those material wins will feel surprisingly empty.
That’s likely what’s tugging at you right now. It’s not that you’re failing at life; it’s that life isn’t about just money and status symbols. It’s about meaning, and meaning comes from what you do with your life, not what you own.
When you imagine yourself in that dream house or cruising in that luxury car, ask yourself this: Are you alone in the bungalow, or are you hosting friends and family for dinner? Are you driving that car just to work, or are you taking it on epic road trips with people who make you laugh until your stomach hurts? The house and car might be symbols of success, but the feeling you’re chasing—connection, freedom, significance—comes from something much deeper than possessions.
From what you’ve shared, it sounds like a few key areas of your life might be missing that depth. Relationships, for example, can make life rich and textured. They’re messy, take effort, and aren’t always easy, but they’re worth it. Having a purpose also matters. Right now, your work seems like a job, but is it something you care about? And finally, there’s joy—those simple, everyday moments of happiness that aren’t tied to material gains or goals. Not every activity has to lead to something tangible. Some of the most fulfilling parts of life are the ones that seem “pointless”—like sitting on a beach, laughing with friends, or trying something new just for fun.
You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight, but start small. Call up an old friend, join a community group, or volunteer somewhere meaningful. It might feel awkward at first, but human connection is an investment that never loses value. Take some time to reflect on what success really means to you. If it still includes the bungalow and luxury cars, great—but think about who you’d want to share those things with and why they matter to you. And try something just for fun, something that has nothing to do with making money or achieving a goal. Maybe it’s reading a book, watching a dumb comedy, or going for a walk. The point isn’t the activity itself but the joy it brings.
Here’s the big question: If you woke up tomorrow with your dream house and car, what would you do next? Start imagining what happens after you reach those goals. That vision can be your compass, guiding you toward a life that feels more whole.
Your goals aren’t bad—they’re just incomplete. A big house and a nice car can be part of a fulfilling life, but they’re not the whole story. Life isn’t about what you own; it’s about what you experience, the people you share it with, and the legacy you leave behind. Keep asking yourself the tough questions. Don’t settle for a life that’s just about checking boxes. There’s so much more waiting for you out there.
Take care of yourself,