I’ve always been a skeptical dude growing up with a crazy mother and sister, thus seeing threads of BPDish behaviour a mile away. Used to be NAWALT (not all women are like that); but would only date hot aspergers girls (a rarity) because they don’t do the social bullshit, and usually realise they lack empathy in their teens and go off principles rather than feelings. It’s a little safer, when they get angry, they still act on principle (A commonly masculine trait) but.. I learnt my lesson, ALWALT (all women are like that). Anyway, been GMOW (going my own way) for about 3 years (pissed I wasted my early 20’s chasing validation and bitches).