Every January, many of us reflect on how to make the upcoming year surpass the previous one. Given the global challenges of the past two years, this introspection feels even more pertinent.
However, the term “better” is subjective. For some, it might mean increased productivity, while for others, it’s about decluttering life to focus on genuine passions. Donald Miller, a renowned author, believes that most are in search of a deeper purpose.
In his recent book, “Hero on a Mission,” Miller posits an intriguing approach: begin by penning your eulogy. While it might seem grim initially, it’s akin to setting a goal and tracing steps backward. This strategy, effective in business or projects, can also be applied to life planning. By visualizing the desired end, one can lead a life with purpose.
Miller shared with me, “Starting with the end in mind lets you structure your life to reach that endpoint. Every day, I review my eulogy and my goals. This ritual centers me and reminds me of my life’s purpose.”
There’s no shortage of books on life’s meaning, many delving into philosophical debates. Yet, as the fictional philosopher Charlie Brown once said, “The meaning of life is to hope tomorrow is better.” If you resonate with this sentiment, perhaps you lack a life blueprint. Miller’s book emphasizes the roles we play in our life story, particularly the hero versus the victim.
Many have felt victimized, especially in recent times. However, the objective is to recognize oneself as the hero of one’s narrative. If you identify more with the victim or even the villain, it’s time to reassess your journey’s direction.
Drawing from his experiences, Miller offers readers a roadmap to craft a fulfilling narrative. He doesn’t dictate life’s purpose but provides tools to discover and live it. This is where the eulogy concept shines.
Envisioning your life’s story posthumously compels you to live intentionally now. With a clear narrative, daily decisions become more purposeful, and distractions are easier to sidestep.
Miller remarked, “Contemplating my mortality daily has amplified my drive and presence. It’s a daily reminder of life’s fleeting nature.”
The crux is this: many grapple with life’s purpose, only to realize time is slipping away. Recognizing our finite time instills urgency, propelling us towards a meaningful existence.
Miller’s book offers pragmatic guidance on formulating a life strategy encompassing personal and professional aspirations. Surprisingly, it all commences with drafting your eulogy.