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Let’s cut through the noise: do you even know what you want? I’m not asking about the vague, Instagram-worthy stuff like “happiness” or “success.” I’m talking about the specifics. The actual life you want—not some generic idea of what society says you should want.
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We all know the feeling: it’s 11 p.m., you’re still scrolling through Instagram or TikTok, and you realize you’ve wasted an hour… or three. Reducing screen time can feel impossible when so much of our lives are tethered to our devices. But it doesn’t have to be that way. You can regain control over your time and attention without swearing off technology entirely. Here’s how.
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Do you ever find yourself saying “yes” when you want to say “no”? Or going out of your way to avoid conflict, even if it means ignoring your own needs? If so, you might be caught in the people-pleasing trap—a pattern that often has its roots in childhood.
Understanding where people-pleasing comes from is the first step toward breaking free. And spoiler: it’s not about being overly nice. It’s about survival strategies you learned early in life, strategies that are now sabotaging your happiness and relationships.
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We all have something we want but don’t have yet. Maybe it’s a better job, a stronger relationship, a healthier body, or just a little peace of mind. And we tell ourselves, If I just keep doing what I’m doing, eventually, I’ll get there. But here’s the truth no one likes to say out loud: what got you here won’t get you there.
There’s a conversation I keep having with people about burnout—friends, colleagues, even strangers on the internet. It goes something like this:
“I feel stuck. Work is draining me, and I don’t have any energy left at the end of the day.”
I nod, empathize, and then ask, “What do you do outside of work?”
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When most people think about their biggest financial decision, they picture buying a house, investing in the stock market, or choosing the right career path. But the truth is, none of those choices will impact your financial future as profoundly as the person you choose to marry.
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We often think of confidence as the magical ingredient that leads to success. It’s the stuff of motivational posters and pep talks: “Believe in yourself and you can do anything!” But here’s the truth that doesn’t make it onto the posters: confidence isn’t what gets you started—it’s what you earn along the way.
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We’ve all been there. You’re upset because someone close to you didn’t do what you expected—or didn’t say what you needed to hear. And instead of just telling them, you stew in silence, convinced they should just know.
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We’ve all been there: chasing approval like it’s some magical key to unlock the life we’ve always wanted. Maybe it’s a promotion, a compliment, or that elusive nod from someone you admire. But let’s be honest: the harder you try to prove yourself, the further you drift from who you truly are. It’s like being stuck in a hamster wheel, endlessly running but never actually getting anywhere.
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Most of us would rather jump into a freezing lake than hear the words, “Can I give you some feedback?” It’s like the universal prelude to a sucker punch—except instead of hitting your face, it goes straight for your ego. Feedback feels personal because it is personal. It’s about you, your work, your choices, and sometimes even your character. And that can sting.