Poll Of The Day

I’m seeing this girl since three months and we get along very well, we never had sex even if there were time I thought it was going to be the case.

Two days ago she told me and showed me her giant clit (5 inches), which kind of look like a penis. I knew it existed but never saw this in my real life.

I really like her and a don’t want to be shallow but I’m confused. I’m trying to be supportive and comprehensive but I’m not sure how the sex can be like in a situation like this one.

My girlfriend (F40) of 8 months revealed to me last night, rather casually, that she used to be a “serial cheater” for years; and cheated on every partner she ever had until a couple of years ago.

She said at the time she was remorseless, but eventually came to a point she decided it wasn’t conducive to a healthy relationship or her self esteem and decided to stop.

I (M38) have always struggled with trust issues my whole life for a variety of reasons I won’t go into. She seemed to brush this off as little more than an anecdote, but I gotta tell y’all, I’m shook.

I’d like to believe she’s changed and learned from this to become someone who would never do this again. But if I’m being honest, I definitely have less faith in her that I did 24hrs ago. What should I do?