Caveman Circus

Something happened between my girlfriend (F25) and I (M24) last week, and I’m trying my best to forget about the situation, but it keeps coming back into my mind and I think I may need some opinions on this situation due to the slight burden it has been for me.

My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I am very fortunate to visit her every month due to a generous work schedule I have. Last week I landed at her city of residence and met up with her in the evening. As the night carried on, we went back to our place, things got hot and heavy, so naturally we went to the bedroom.

Upon entering the bedroom, my girlfriend points to the light switch on the wall and tells me “turn off the lights”. Not a problem, done. Clothes begin to fall off afterwards, and once she takes her bra off, I close my eyes and begin kissing her chest, and then she tells me “give me some hickeys around my breasts”.

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I’m a little in shock and a little not surprised. He was raised in a very conservative Christian family so when things were a little awkward between us physically, I thought that was it, but he he just admitted that he finds my body (extra weight) so unattractive that he is embarrassed to be seen with me.

He loves me deeply, I do not doubt that at all, and he does take me out, introduce me to friends, etc, but he argues that the sacrifice he is making in being with me despite “how it makes him feel” should speak volumes for how much he loves me. This only makes me feel worse.

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Let’s talk about something we all experience but rarely discuss openly: the nature of our emotional pain. It’s a universal human experience, yet we often feel alone in our struggles. But here’s the thing – there’s more to our distress than meets the eye.

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