
There is a cruel sort of poetry in the way we are taught, from the time we are small, to believe in fairness. “Take turns,” the teacher says. “Share equally.” We are handed stickers for good behavior, gold stars for effort, trophies for participation. We are told that if we work hard, if we do the right thing, if we follow the rules, things will work out. We are told that fairness is not just an ideal but a guarantee.
And then, of course, life breaks that promise. Again and again and again.
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