Bushido and Surrender: The Psychological Impact on Japanese Soldiers
To understand the psychological turmoil faced by Japanese soldiers who were captured, we first need to delve into the essence of bushido—the samurai code of honor that had been adapted to modern Japanese military doctrine.
Bushido emphasized loyalty, honor, and the ultimate sacrifice for one’s lord, or in this case, the Emperor. Embedded within this code was a stark principle: death before dishonor. To die in battle was to fulfill one’s duty; to surrender was to live in shame.
[Read more…] about Bushido and Surrender: The Psychological Impact on Japanese Soldiers
“Been best friends with a girl for 5 years and always had feelings”
I’ve asked her once if she wanted to take it to the next stage but got rejected, 4 years later we are talking every single day, Need to know what yall would do in my shoes. should I try again and push for a relationship or just move on even if I still love her ?
You’ve been best friends with this girl for five years, and you’ve had feelings for her all along. You even asked her out four years ago, and she turned you down. But you’re still in touch every day, and those feelings haven’t gone away. You’re wondering if you should try again or just move on.
[Read more…] about “Been best friends with a girl for 5 years and always had feelings”
“Why are most people good at life? Where did I go wrong?”
It’s hard for me to believe that most people are good at life. They have girlfriends, houses, 70k+ jobs at least, or 2 of the three, usually by age 26. I’m 25 and I net 37k, with a small apartment, no gf in my life.
I went to college. I felt exhausted everyday and never was able to commit to anything. Yes I’m a screw up, I just don’t get how everyone suddenly did not become a screw up. Life is exhausting and demanding.
[Read more…] about “Why are most people good at life? Where did I go wrong?”
The Art of Minding Your Own Business
Look, in a world where everyone’s got an opinion and feels the need to shove it in your face, it’s easy to get caught up in the noise. Social media, gossip, and the constant barrage of unsolicited advice can make you feel like you need to have a hot take on everything. But here’s the thing: you don’t.
‘Keeping it Real’ or Being an Asshole?
We’ve all encountered that guy who prides himself on “telling it like it is” and “keeping it real.” He’s quick to share his unfiltered thoughts and opinions, no matter how rude or offensive they may be. When called out on his behavior, he doubles down, insisting that he’s just being honest and that other people are too sensitive or “can’t handle the truth.”
Linkage
18 Photos That Will Remind You That Life Is Beautiful – Ned Hardy
This Godfather’s Actor Acted in Only Five Movies and All Were Nominated for an Academy Award – Wanderer
The best pocket knife for under $20. Reliable, robust and tough. Can’t say enough good things about it – Amazon
The Ultimate Guide to Mason Jar Salads: Tasty, Healthy, and Budget-Friendly” – HUM Nutrition
Boba Fett Action Figure Becomes Most Valuable Toy Ever Sold – Nerdable
The World’s Richest Family Is About to Remake the Olympics. Here’s How – GQ
Which Films Were Underappreciated in Their Time? A Statistical Analysis – Stat Significant
Man figured out how to beat squatters at their own game. Now he helps others do it – Upworthy
The Lost Art of Buying a Round for the Bar – Esquire
“The Earth Has Music For Those Who Listen” – Ned Hardy
Their screwdrivers are pretty hard to beat in terms of value. The tips are high quality and the “laser tips”, while gimmicky in name, don’t strip. So long as you like the feel of the handles, they’re a no-brainier IMO – Amazon
You Probably Need Less Money Than You Think For Retirement – Wealth of Common Sense
CBT? DBT? Psychodynamic? What Type of Therapy Is Right for Me? – The Conversation
50 Brilliant ‘Child Hacks’ For Babysitters, Parents, Teachers, And Nurses – Thought Catalog
On Getting Rejected a Lot (and Liking It) – Outside
My husband works for UPS and I wish people could see how hard his job is — and why the new $170,000 contract deal is well deserved – Insider
Talk WITH People, Not AT Them – The Art Of Manliness
The 50 most beautiful small towns in the world – Traveler
8 Types Of Women You Should Avoid – Wing Girl Method
The Dumping Grounds
“My best friend is staying with his cheating wife. Is there anything I can do?”
One of my best friends is being cheated on by his wife. They have a lovely house and two great children together. She has been having an affair with another guy for months, keeps getting caught-out, tries to lie about it, promises to change, and then just continues to have the affair.
The most recent time she got caught, her response was to change all of the passwords on her phone, email, computer, etc. My friend has believed her lies, tried to help her as she plays the victim when confronted by him, tried marriage counselling, everything, because it seems like he can’t bring himself to admit that her continued actions are effectively ending their marriage. But, rather than simply end it, she just keeps lying and having affairs.
[Read more…] about “My best friend is staying with his cheating wife. Is there anything I can do?”
Poll of the Day
Which option would you choose: a guaranteed $250,000 or a chance to win a billion dollars by betting on black on roulette?