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What Your Anger Issues Really Say About You

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Look, we all get angry sometimes. Life is full of frustrating situations and people who piss us off. But if you find yourself constantly blowing up at minor annoyances – screaming obscenities at other drivers, raging at slow wifi, punching holes in walls – then I’ve got some harsh news for you: You’ve got some serious issues, and your anger is just the tip of the iceberg.

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The Uncomfortable Truth About Growth and Change

We all say we want to grow, evolve, and become better versions of ourselves. We post inspirational quotes on Instagram about stepping outside our comfort zones. We read self-help books claiming to have the secrets to personal transformation.

But here’s the thing: Most of us are full of shit. We say we want to change, but what we really want is to feel like we’re changing while staying essentially the same. We want improvement without discomfort, growth without growing pains.

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How ‘I’ Statements Save Relationships

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Let’s face it: conflict sucks. Whether it’s with your partner, your boss, or your best friend, nobody wakes up thinking, “You know what I need today? A good argument.” But guess what? Conflict is inevitable. And if you don’t know how to handle it, it can turn into a massive dumpster fire that burns through your relationships faster than a fake news scandal on social media.

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Links

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Lets Take a Stroll through the Art Museum – Ned Hardy

How to remove that foggy residue on your car headlights and restored it to shoowroom condition – Amazon

5 Most Watched TV Show Episodes Ever – SNIP

Feeling Embarrassed? Here’s The Right Way To Handle It – Fatherly

Judge Judy’s New York Penthouse Is Up For Sale. Take A Peek Inside – Compass

Louisiana orders every classroom to display Ten Commandments – BBC

What Men and Women Don’t Understand About Each Other – Psychology Today

A Costco manager who has been with the company for over 20 years shares his No. 1 tip for getting promoted – Insider

Ex-OpenAI star Sutskever shoots for superintelligent AI with new company – ARS Technica

We’re Still Waiting for the Next Big Leap in AI – Wired

The Four-Day Workweek: How It’s Working at Two Companies – WSJ

Historical Experience of the Day – Ned Hardy

Kitchen Life Hack: Put your oils, vinegars and sauces in squeeze bottles. It’s much easier to dispense the exact amounts and no more fussing with pulling out large glass bottles – Amazon

Eight Subtle Signs That You’re About to Buy a Money Pit – Life Hacker

Ranked: The World’s Top 10 Billionaires in 2024 – Visual Capitalist

20 Signs That a Man is a Loser in Life – Linkiest

Will I just keep spending more and more money forever? – VOX

How to Split the Bill at a Restaurant, No Matter How Complicated – Bon Appetit

Planning a long-haul flight? Here’s how to outsmart jet lag – NPR

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“Having an affair with a married man and I don’t feel bad”

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So basically I’m a waitress and the guy, married man in question came to my job and instantly clicked. He’s 8 years older than me and I am in my mid 20s.

We were initially both just getting to know each other, he became one of my regular patrons but nothing went further. I was in a relationship with my child’s father but that has since ended. I came to find out that he was married when I revealed to him that I have a daughter.

We generally chat on his way home from work and when he comes in. We went hunting together this weekend and it was a lot of fun and we’re supposed to meet up today during his lunch break.

Basically, his wife hasn’t been intimate with him in almost a year and I’m an outlet for that. I’m planning to move down south in the coming year and I believe that’s part of the reason I don’t feel bad. I also find it exciting, the thrill of potentially getting caught or having his wife find out and come after me.

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