Dating Advice

How to Stop Being Devastated By Rejection

December 6, 2022 Leave a Comment

Some people try to avoid rejection in every aspect of their lives. They seek perfection and success in every endeavor. But all they do is set themselves up to be unprepared for rejection.

Because once they encounter rejection, it shatters their reality. They’re so used to doing everything perfectly that a rejection means that something is wrong with them. It becomes a big, personal deal — even if it’s not.

You need to accept that rejection is inevitable. It is simply a natural part of life that we all face. The strongest individuals understand this and constantly seek out the possibility of rejection. That’s the only way to internalize that rejection is temporary and a source of power.

She Is Rooting For You

November 28, 2022 Leave a Comment

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Men who have the perception of women as these ego-centric creatures who laugh at us from their sexual mountain-tops, doling out which man gets (a chance at) the divine pussy access and which man gets to squander away his time in solitude — it doesn’t work like that.

Think about it. Why do women spend so much time and effort on their appearance?

Why do they go to singles’ bars and join dating sites and give blind dates a try?

They don’t do it so that they can revel in rejecting a bunch of guys.

They’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are.

They want to meet a man. But not just any man, a great man — a man who is confident, charming, fun, and interesting.

The Real Problem with ‘Nice Guys’

November 9, 2022 Leave a Comment

Women aren’t in the business of trading sex in exchange for you being nice to them.

If you think being a nice guy should be enough to get you laid, then you got another thing coming.Women don’t owe you sex, or a date, or a relationship because you’re a nice guy.

When People Want To See You, They Will Make The Time

October 27, 2022 Leave a Comment

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We are all busy. We all work. Some work long hours. Some have kids. Some are single Parents. Some of us work 70 80 hours a week. Whatever your situation is. Someone if they care about you enough will make the time for you.

How to Write a Good First Message in Online Dating

September 27, 2022 Leave a Comment

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In online dating, you’re going to competing with a massive male population. Too many men bombard women with boring statements, lewd comments, and over-the-top sappiness. The best thing you can do is be interesting, intriguing, and please, show some class.

Waiting Too Long To Make A Move

September 21, 2022 Leave a Comment

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Guys who always end up as “just a friend” don’t realize how small their windows of opportunity are.

They spend months chatting a girl up at school or work before inviting her to do something together. They message for weeks in online dating thinking it’ll make her feel more comfortable to meet up. They don’t go for a kiss for the first few dates and often don’t get that chance ever again.

Most women know if they’re attracted (or potentially attracted) to someone much quicker than that. I’m talking about the first few times interacting with a guy.

Always Invite Her Out Even If You Think It’s Pointless

September 6, 2022 Leave a Comment

Sometimes when you meet a woman out in your daily life, you only get to chat for a few moments.

Because the conversation went by so quickly, you don’t bother inviting her out to see her again. You assume that there’s no way she’d be open to the idea in that short timeframe.

You think you didn’t talk to her long enough. You feel you didn’t build enough chemistry or get into a more engaging conversation. Maybe you believe you weren’t funny enough.

If You Are Unsuccessful With Women, It Is 100% Your Fault. You Are Not A Victim

August 9, 2022 Leave a Comment

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Pornography, Hollywood, and other forms of media have deluded men into false perceptions of women think and how attraction works.

Porn is a falsified, artificially constructed representation of human sexuality, where attraction and arousal are instantaneous, easy and abundant without true effort.

On the other side, mainstream movies, i.e. romance porn, often portray unquestioned dedication as the ultimate way to woman’s heart. Unremarkable, piddling men will win a beautiful woman over through some grand act of devotion, reinforcing that idea that men can be mediocre and still attract beautiful women solely through sacrifice.

An Easy Way To Meet People Without Using Dating Apps

July 29, 2022 Leave a Comment

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Even though many people use dating apps and I have nothing against them, I still prefer meeting people organically / in real life.

One good way to do this (and also how I’ve met friends as well as some people that I’ve gone on dates with) is by going to the same place repeatedly.

15 Signs She is Girlfriend Material

July 26, 2022 Leave a Comment

There is one crucial mistake that thousands of men make, that you should avoid at all cost. Approaching a girl with a weird line might result in ten minutes of awkward stammering, but choosing the wrong girlfriend, can lead to a life of regret, especially when you put a ring on her finger and a baby in her belly. By sharing the following 15 signs she is girlfriend material, I want to provide you with everything you need to know in order to make the right decision. I don’t want you to be the next guy who asks me for advice on how he can escape his toxic relationship.