Dating Advice
The Daily Man-Up: What To Do After Your Partner Cheats On You
November 11, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating Advice |
I have been through this. I found out my wife had a threesome with a friend and his wife, then caught her with another guy. The first time I found out, I felt like you feel. Like someone has torn your soul out of your chest, like the most precious thing you had in your life was stolen from you. You feel like you will never get it back, like you’re made of glass and someone demolished you. I know how you feel.
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The Daily Man-Up: How to Stop Being Devastated By Rejection
November 7, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Man-Up, Dating Advice |
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Some people try to avoid rejection in every aspect of their lives. They seek perfection and success in every endeavor. But all they do is set themselves up to be unprepared for rejection.
Because once they encounter rejection, it shatters their reality. They’re so used to doing everything perfectly that a rejection means that something is wrong with them. It becomes a big, personal deal — even if it’s not.
You need to accept that rejection is inevitable. It is simply a natural part of life that we all face. The strongest individuals understand this and constantly seek out the possibility of rejection. That’s the only way to internalize that rejection is temporary and a source of power.
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The Daily Man-Up
November 4, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating Advice |
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You gotta go for the kiss.
If you attempt it and it comes out awkward, whatever, screw it. you tried. if she likes you, she won’t care.
If you attempt it and comes out beautifully done, great awesome! you did it!
Regardless, if you’re feeling it, go for the kiss on the first or second date.
It will take you from being seen as a friend to now being seen as a romantic and sexual option.
And that’s ultimately the goal to being in a relationship right?
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The Daily Man-Up: Why You Should Learn to Walk Away
October 30, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Man-Up, Dating Advice |
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Many men have fragile egos when it comes to women. I’m not judging, my pride used to get the best of me, too. I couldn’t handle the reality of being rejected or losing a girl — it was one of my worst fears. I lived with a scarcity mentality.
Scarcity mentality is the belief that there’s a limited number of opportunities in your life. With women, if you miss out on a single chance, you’ll never get another like it. What happens is that you view your connections as win or lose situations. It’s black or white:
“If I don’t get this girl, I’m a failure and a loser. I’ll be alone forever. But if I do, I’m a real man and a winner.”
You then do everything in your power to “win” girls over. You will chase endlessly, pretend to be a friend for months or years, disrespect your time, and even let yourself get walked over — all because you can’t let go of this one girl.
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The Daily Man-Up: When People Want To See You, They Will Make The Time
October 24, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating Advice |
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We are all busy. We all work. Some work long hours. Some have kids. Some are single Parents. Some of us work 70 80 hours a week. Whatever your situation is. Someone if they care about you enough will make the time for you.
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The Daily Man-Up: 5 Keys to Meeting Women
October 3, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating Advice |
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1. Confidence. Confidence comes from a mindset that is both pragmatic and optimistic. For example: When I’m working up the courage to talk to a woman, I’ll remind myself that she’s already NOT dating me, so the worst that can happen is that she continues to not date me. However if I don’t strike up a conversation with her, I’ll probably regret not taking the chance. That’s being pragmatic. The optimistic side is me telling myself to believe in the “what if?” – maybe we’ll get along wonderfully, maybe she’ll be into me, maybe I’ll make her laugh, maybe it’ll lead to a single date or maybe more?
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The Daily Man-Up: The Real Problem with ‘Nice Guys’
September 10, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating Advice, Man-Up |
Women aren’t in the business of trading sex in exchange for you being nice to them.
If you think being a nice guy should be enough to get you laid, then you got another thing coming.Women don’t owe you sex, or a date, or a relationship because you’re a nice guy.
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The Daily Man-Up: Be the Leading Man
September 6, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Man-Up, Dating Advice |
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“Where do you want to eat?”
“I don’t know where do you want to go?”
“I really don’t care at all, you choose.”
Does this conversation sound familiar? There’s nothing more frustrating to girls than a guy who can’t make up his mind.
Women love a man who can lead. A man who takes charge of things and is strong yet respectful. Don’t believe it? Look at nearly every romance novel written in the last 50 years. I’m not talking about being a control-freak here, but rather a man who is confident with himself and his choices. Women are attracted to a guy who knows what he wants, is honest about his passions, and is willing to make the tough decisions when needed.
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The Daily Man-Up: 13 Rules For Relationships
August 30, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating Advice |
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Initial dating section:
1: communicate what you want and think clearly and openly. If the person you’re dating demands that you read their mind I can’t help you there. On our first date we agreed that we would never expect the other to know what we haven’t verbalized and it is a total life saver.
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The Daily Man-Up
August 28, 2019 | No Comments » | Topics: Dating Advice |
In study group at university
“I should go ask her about this thing so I talk to her..
Uhh.. nah that’d be kinda creepy. I should just ask the person sitting next to me. Also that guy sitting next to her and talking to her might be her boyfriend.”