Dating Advice

15 Signs She is Girlfriend Material

July 30, 2021 Leave a Comment

There is one crucial mistake that thousands of men make, that you should avoid at all cost. Approaching a girl with a weird line might result in ten minutes of awkward stammering, but choosing the wrong girlfriend, can lead to a life of regret, especially when you put a ring on her finger and a baby in her belly. By sharing the following 15 signs she is girlfriend material, I want to provide you with everything you need to know in order to make the right decision. I don’t want you to be the next guy who asks me for advice on how he can escape his toxic relationship.

Be Emotionally Stronger Than Her

July 22, 2021 Leave a Comment

Life is tough sometimes.

Every now and then, life tends to throw you a curveball and a woman wants to be able to rely on her man to remain strong no matter what happens.

She doesn’t want to have to be the strong one or “the man” and take care of a scared, sensitive or insecure guy who can’t handle the pressures of life as a human being. She wants to be able to relax into being the more emotionally sensitive and vulnerable one, rather than having to be strong for her guy because he is weak.

Stay Calm in the Midst of Chaos

July 12, 2021 Leave a Comment

Always stay calm. You are a rock. You are her rock.

Be calm when she becomes emotional. All women are emotional to an extent. You can’t change it.

There is no point in even trying. But also, do not run away from the situation. This doesn’t work either and she’ll resent you for it.

What you must do is face her head-on like a MAN.

How To Meet People Without Using Dating Apps

June 30, 2021 Leave a Comment

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Even though many people use dating apps and I have nothing against them, I still prefer meeting people organically / in real life.

One good way to do this (and also how I’ve met friends as well as some people that I’ve gone on dates with) is by going to the same place repeatedly.

How To Ask A Girl Out And Save Face If She’s Not Interested

June 21, 2021 Leave a Comment

Here is a handy guide on how to ask a girl out, yet save face for both of you if she isn’t interested:

Ask the girl the following: “Hey, I was wondering if you’d be free this ______ at ___ pm to get dinner with me?” Be extremely specific! Don’t say, “Are you free in the next decade?” or worse yet, “When are you free?”. It’s much better to say, “Are you free this Saturday at 6:30pm?”.

Option A: She says some variation of “yes”. Wow, that was easy!

Option B: She says, “Sorry, I have fiveexams that week, but how about _____? Does that work for you?” Congratulations, she was actually busy but is interested in you! You also gave her the option to decide on a date that works for her, you gentleman you!

How To Get Over The Person That Ignored, Ghosted, Rejected, or Used You.

June 17, 2021 Leave a Comment

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You aren’t in love. You aren’t infatuated. Your ego is damaged.

When people use us, then toss us to the side, that desire to win them over isn’t because we really want to be with them. It isn’t even really a desire for them. It’s a desire to prove our worth. When someone rejects you after using you, your ego and sense of pride is damaged, because they were able to play your emotions for them to their advantage, and get what they wanted, or what they think they wanted.

19 Signs That You’re In An Abusive Relationship

June 15, 2021 Leave a Comment

1. Make it difficult for you to meet/connect/spend time with family or friends and will repeatedly make critical comments (to isolate you)

2. They don’t respect your boundaries. And they subtly push them until you find yourself tolerating things you would usually run for the hills for

Nice Guys vs Good Men

June 11, 2021 Leave a Comment

In this world, there is a subset of men that believe women are only attracted to assholes.

Which is true, if you preface this belief with ‘very few’.

The vast majority of women are attracted to good men.

The subset of men that believe otherwise are Nice Guys.

If You Are Unsuccessful With Women, It Is 100% Your Fault. You Are Not A Victim

June 7, 2021 Leave a Comment

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Pornography, Hollywood, and other forms of media have deluded men into false perceptions of women think and how attraction works.

Porn is a falsified, artificially constructed representation of human sexuality, where attraction and arousal are instantaneous, easy and abundant without true effort.

On the other side, mainstream movies, i.e. romance porn, often portray unquestioned dedication as the ultimate way to woman’s heart. Unremarkable, piddling men will win a beautiful woman over through some grand act of devotion, reinforcing that idea that men can be mediocre and still attract beautiful women solely through sacrifice.

How to Stop Being Devastated By Rejection

May 28, 2021 Leave a Comment

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Some people try to avoid rejection in every aspect of their lives. They seek perfection and success in every endeavor. But all they do is set themselves up to be unprepared for rejection.

Because once they encounter rejection, it shatters their reality. They’re so used to doing everything perfectly that a rejection means that something is wrong with them. It becomes a big, personal deal — even if it’s not.

You need to accept that rejection is inevitable. It is simply a natural part of life that we all face. The strongest individuals understand this and constantly seek out the possibility of rejection. That’s the only way to internalize that rejection is temporary and a source of power.