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“I set a boundary about money. Now my relationship feels different.”

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years, living together for one. He purchased his house before we started dating, and I moved in from a rental. He pays the mortgage, and I cover all utilities, maintenance, and groceries, which felt fair.

As we talk about our future—marriage and kids—we’ve discussed renovating the house so it’s suitable for a family. The estimated cost is around $100,000, and the idea was that this would be my “buy-in” to the house. We even talked about drawing up an agreement to protect both of us.

As this has become more real, I’ve started feeling unsettled about investing that much money into a house I don’t own. I told him I’d want to be engaged before starting renovations so I feel the commitment matches the risk.

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“I’m married and crushing hard on a co-worker”

About 3 months ago I came to know a new coworker. He’s hot, very friendly, and also married. There have been times where I feel he’s more friendly with me- we always have this natural banter without trying. No lines have been crossed but I feel a vibe.

For example, a few days ago I stopped by his department to ask someone else a question. Whenever I’m over there he gets up or starts a conversation with me. So he asked me a work question. We ended up talking for 15 minutes. I told him I had to go and made it to the hallway and he said, “hey wait- “ and had another work question for me. We talked a while longer.

He greets me with my name and makes a lot of eye contact which I know can be normal. Maybe he’s just a flirty person. No touching, no compliments.

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25 Historical Photos and the Stories Behind Them – Ned Hardy

This book is great because it blends real, brainy science with humor, heart, and a genuinely gripping survival story that keeps getting smarter and more emotional as it goes. – Amazon

Here are 5 joyful things that are making us smile this week – Upworthy

How L.A.’s Richest Man Went From Billions to Bust – WSJ

5 Bizarre Rules Dictators Required From the Chefs Who Fed Them – Mental Floss

All 12 of James Cameron’s Films Ranked, From Worst to Best – Hollywood Reporter

How a Simple URL Typo Can Make You a Target for Malware – Lifehacker

25 Memes That Won The Internet This Week – Ned Hardy

Stop using those cheap nail clippers and get a Japanese one. The difference is night and day and you’ll wonder how you ever lived without one. – Amazon

9 actually good things that happened to animals this year – Vox

Sony shells out nearly half a billion for Peanuts – AV Club

30 Heartwarming Photos That Will Make Your Whole Day Feel A Little Lighter – Linkiest

Boy with down syndrome nails the ‘Whitney Houston Challenge’ and classmates go crazy! – Instagram

Jean-Claude Romand Lied About Being A Doctor For Years — Then Murdered His Entire Family To Keep Them From Discovering The Truth – All That’s Interesting

The Best Places to Eat in 2026 – Condé Nast Traveler

“Is it normal that my boyfriend constantly threatens to break up”

I (F25) have been with my boyfriend (M29) for over two years. We love each other, and until recently, our relationship felt amazing—like we never left the honeymoon phase. But the past few months have been different. We’ve been fighting nonstop, and almost every argument ends up being about what I’m doing wrong. It always escalates to him saying we need to reevaluate our relationship or that he’s not sure he wants this anymore.

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Her Husband Worked Two Jobs While She Hid a $47,000 ‘Escape Fund’

I (34F) have recently ran into a situation with my husband (37M) and am curious about if I am the AH here or not. So me and my husband have been tother for 8 years, married for 7. When I got married my mother came to me privately and talked about setting aside money as a rainy day/ escape fund if worst came to worst. My husband has never showed any signs of being dangerous and rarely even gets upset, but the way my mother talked about it, it seemed like a no brainer to have.

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This Year’s Biggest News Stories, From the White House to the L.A. Fires to the Middle East – Archive.ph

25 Vintage Photos That Capture Christmas Through the Years – Ned Hardy

This book is for all the parents who want to break unhealthy cycles and raise their children with more awareness, care, and intention than they themselves were given. – Amazon

Chris Evans Returns for ‘Avengers: Doomsday’ as Captain America With a Child, Teaser Confirms – Variety

The 8 worst technology flops of 2025 – MIT Technology Review

The Woman in the Coldplay Concert Kiss Cam Video Is Ready to Talk – Archive.ph

26 Nostalgic Photos That Will Unlock a Core Memory – Ned Hardy

Really high quality tool set that would be a great gift for anyone handy person out there – Amazon

How the Phone Ban Saved High School: Since the bell-to-bell device lockup, teens have rediscovered the simple pleasures of conversation and poker – Archive.is

OpenAI Is Going Into the New Year With Some Real Loser Energy – Gizmodo

The Earliest Known Customer Complaint Was Made 3,800 Years Ago: Read the Rant on an Ancient Babylonian Tablet – Open Culture

How to Read One Book Per Week (Even if You Read Slowly) – Scott H. Young

50 Wholesome Christmas Pictures That Capture The Spirit Of The Season – Linkiest

The Safety Squat Bar: The Middle-Aged Man’s Secret Weapon for Leg Strength – Art of Manliness

NASCAR driver Greg Biffle killed in plane crash at Statesville airport in North Carolina – Yahoo News

What It’s Like to Be Raised in a Family of 22 Siblings

I’m the fourteenth of twenty-two children. All biological. Fourteen boys, eight girls. When I say that out loud, I can feel people doing the math in their heads—trying to picture it, trying to understand how something like that even functions. Most people don’t grow up in a family; they grow up in a household. I grew up in something closer to a small, loud, moving ecosystem.

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