
“Married to someone far less intelligent than me”

I got married earlier this year. Long story short, we had been back and forth for a few years and I finally knuckled down and pushed through my doubts and issues because I trusted it would work out and be a positive step for me. Now that I’m in the middle of it, I keep having major triggers and it’s feeding some deep regret and leading me into a depression.
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Poll of the Day

A Message To All The Short Guys Out There

Lucas Byrd is about 5-foot-5.
His fiance, former Division I volleyball player Ellie Holzman, is over 6 feet tall.
So, short guys, we need to have a conversation.
Yes, height matters in dating. Some women won’t date you because you’re short. That sucks.
You know what also sucks?
Being short and spending your entire life pissed off about being short.
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Linkage
The Future of Scams Won’t Look Like Scams – Shield And Fortify
If You Love History and Have a Dark Sense of Humor, These 28 Memes Are for You – Ned Hardy
The is a genuine game changer. It dries a whole bowl of greens in seconds with one easy push, so your salads stay crisp and dressing actually sticks. – Amazon
Meta Reaches $17 Billion Settlement With 48 States Over Child-Safety Claims – NPR
The Connections That Turned a Precocious Teen Into the Fallen ‘Nostradamus of AI’ – WSJ
Tim Curry, iconic character actor and ‘Rocky Horror Picture Show’ star, dies at 80 – AP News
Two unvaccinated people die from measles in Pennsylvania, officials confirm – Ars Technica
GTA 6′s Lucky Leak #13 Reveals Crowd Scenes You Will Not Believe – Kotaku
The Real Lives of Online Romance Scammers – New Republic
30 Bizarre Marriage Tricks Real Couples Swear By – Ned Hardy
If you dont have good knife skills, this turns onions, peppers, and other vegetables into perfectly even pieces in seconds, making meal prep faster, easier, and far less messy. – Amazon
Mark Zuckerberg had a bold plan to replace Meta staff with AI. Here’s how it imploded. – Reuters
Reggie Watts Dropped From Festivals Following Investigation Into Late Girlfriend, Drug Use Allegations – Rolling Stone
Is Mojtaba Khamenei Dead? – Archive.ph
LeBron James Borrowed $300 Million From Insurers Arranged by Guggenheim – Archive.ph
After lots of therapy, Raygun is ready to talk – CNN
Smart Glasses Are Creeping Out Entire Countries – Gizmodo
The Dumping Grounds
A Stripper Explains the “Game” to the Guys Who Don’t Get It

Let me save some of you a great deal of money and embarrassment: when a stripper sits beside you, laughs at your jokes, touches your arm, and acts fascinated by your story about crushing your quarterly sales target, she is working.
That does not mean every smile is fake or that she secretly hates you. It means you are inside a business where attention, attraction, conversation, and fantasy are the products. The sooner you understand that, the more enjoyable the experience becomes for everyone.
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10 Women Who Gave Creepy Guys A Chance, Describe Their Experiences

1. Met him when I worked as a cashier in a small downtown shop. Wasn’t my type and seemed a little off, but I was young and had zero real dating experience.
Agreed to grab coffee as a friend and made it clear I didn’t have a romantic interest. He became convinced he was Gatsby and I was his Daisy (the Great Gatsby film had just come out that year).
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How to Be Rejection-Proof (Without Becoming Bitter or Creepy)

Rejection sucks. Whether it’s getting ghosted after a great date, not hearing back from a job, or feeling invisible in a crowd, it’s a gut punch. For some of us, rejection happens so often, it starts to feel like an identity: “I’m just not the type people choose.” And when you add today’s awkward dating world, where everyone seems to be hiding behind screens or terrified of crossing a line, it’s easy to start believing the problem is you.
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“My mom 70s works full time to support my non disabled 50s brother”

My oldest brother is in his 50s and hasn’t worked consistently in close to 20 years. He lives alone, rent free, in my mom’s second home, which she used to rent out for extra income.
He pays for nothing. My mom covers the mortgage, utilities, his phone bill, his cars, his food, and basically every other necessity.
After my dad died a few years ago, my brother convinced my mom to buy him a new car so he could DoorDash. He already had a paid off car that she had just spent $5,000 fixing for him.
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