Would you rather have $1,000,000 dollars today, or $4000/month (adjusted for inflation), for the rest of your life?
“I proposed to my girlfriend of 10 years yesterday, and she said no because I took too long.”
I was so excited. I proposed. I handed her the ring. She looked like she was going to cry.
Then she said “Sorry. I don’t think we should get married.” I asked her why and she said something along the lines of “I’ll always be the girl you took a decade to decide if I was wifey material. I don’t know how to be happy with that reality”
I really fucked up. Now the woman I love isn’t willing to be my wife. I don’t know what the fuck to do.
“My sister is 30 and hasn’t done anything her entire life”
I’m really at the end of my rope and I don’t know what to say anymore. My older sister hasn’t literally done anything since she was 15. Lives with my parents and has absolutely no ambition besides rotting away in her room on her pc.
She dropped out of high school years ago but it took her until she was 24 to get her GED. Since then she had two minimum wage jobs that she quit in a matter or months.
It’s hard to put into words how tired I am of constantly pointing out the giant elephant in the room of her failure in life. I’m tired of trying to parent her as the younger sister and pushing her to literally do anything. Get a job, join a club, see a therapist, doctor, make a singular friend that isn’t our mother.
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How to Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem Without Creating Pressure
As parents, we all want the best for our kids. We want them to grow up feeling confident, capable, and ready to take on the world. And let’s be honest, when our kids do something awesome, we’re bursting with pride and can’t wait to tell them how great they are. But here’s the thing—praise can be tricky. It’s not just about what you say, but how you say it and what your words actually do for your child in the long run.
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How Abuse Can Creep Into a Relationship
Abuse in a relationship often doesn’t begin with a dramatic, visible event. Instead, it can creep in quietly, almost unnoticed, until it becomes a part of daily life. It’s easy to overlook, especially when the person you care about is the one causing the pain. But just because it’s subtle doesn’t mean it’s not real—or that it won’t grow into something much more damaging over time.
Linkage
21 Photos That Will Remind You That Life Is Beautiful – Ned Hardy
If you cook with Tofu, this is an invaluable tool to effortlessly suck out all the moisture – Amazon
The Importance of Developing and Maintaining Your Social Fitness – The Art of Manliness
40 Life Lessons I Know at 40 (That I Wish I Knew at 20) – Mark Manson
The decline of McDonald’s: How the golden arches lost their shine – The Independent
Ex-bank CEO gets 24 years after falling for crypto scam, causing bank collapse – ARS Technica
How much money you take home from a $100,000 salary after taxes, depending on where you live – Ladders
The Rise And Fall Of Pioneer Chicken – The Land Mag
15 lessons on money and marriage from couples who have been married 10+ years – IWTYTBR
4 Lessons After 11 Years in Silicon Valley – Medium
Pictures and Videos of the Day – Ned Hardy
Beloved by architects, designers, draftspeople, the German-engineered Rotring 600 may be the perfect writing instrument – Amazon
Seven Great Movies You Did Not Know Were Remakes – Linkiest
What makes an album the greatest of all time? – The Pudding
3 re flags that you and your friend should not go on vacation together – CNBC
Mike Lynch’s yacht was state-of-the-art and shouldn’t have sunk so easily, search-and-rescue expert says – Insider
The Movies That Defined Generation X – Den of Geek
Life is Not a Spectator Sport – Becoming Minimalist
10 Signs Your Neighborhood Is Going Downhill – Life Hacker
The Dumping Grounds
Picture of the Day
Whitechapel slum in 1888, the year Jack The Ripper struck
The alley gaped like a wound in the heart of Whitechapel, narrow and festering. Brick walls rose on either side, pitted and stained, bearing silent witness to generations of squalor. The cobblestones beneath were slick with filth, each step a gamble against the mire that sought to claim all who trod there.
Women and children huddled in doorways and upon upturned crates, their faces gaunt and hollow-eyed. They were creatures of twilight, these denizens of the slum, existing in the half-light between life and death. A babe wailed, its cry thin and reedy, quickly swallowed by the oppressive air. An old woman, bent like a twisted tree, muttered incantations to ward off evils both seen and unseen.
How Do Inmates Make Wine in Prison?
Personally, I never met anyone who could make a smooth ass kicking batch of mash better than I! My recipe and procedure of manufacturing I never shared with anyone till today.
I spent almost 2 years experimenting with different ingredients and different techniques. I just didn’t like the taste of other peoples mash. I wanted to find the perfect ingredients and best taste. As is with many things in life, sometimes simple is better!
