dating advice

An Easy Way To Meet People Without Using Dating Apps

November 6, 2023

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The digital dating landscape is a paradox of choice. The seemingly endless options can lead to a perpetual search for someone better, fostering a culture of disposability and a sense that no connection is truly irreplaceable. This abundance of choice might seem liberating, but it can also be profoundly draining. The cycle of swiping, chatting, and experiencing fleeting interactions can erode self-worth, as individuals may start to wonder why connections fizzle out or why they can’t seem to find that elusive ‘spark’.

Moreover, the curated personas on dating apps can exacerbate feelings of worthlessness. Users often present an idealized version of themselves, which can lead to unrealistic expectations and a sense of inadequacy when comparing oneself to others’ highlight reels. The silent rejections—unmatched, unanswered messages, ghosting—can feel personal, even though they are a common experience in the online dating realm.

17 Women Tell Guys What It Takes To Be Good In Bed

September 29, 2023

1. Listening. When we say “right there” do NOT change what you are doing!! That usually means we’re close to an orgasm and if you change something it all goes away. And please make noise! Sex should be fun, noisy, sweaty and a good time!

As Long As You Approach Her, It’s A Success

August 24, 2023

So many guys judge success as “did I have sex with her” or “did I get her phone number” or “did I get her laughing”, etc. However, I judge success differently. It is a very binary way of measuring success, and it is also incredibly powerful. I judge success like this: “Did I approach her or not?”

The Friend Zone Trap: Concealing Your True Intentions

July 28, 2023

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It’s a well-known fact that trying to enter a romantic relationship through the friend zone is an uphill battle. Despite this, many men continue to pursue connections by adopting a purely platonic approach and shying away from showing any signs of attraction. They hope that somehow, the women they are interested in will eventually see their worth and fall for them.

Here’s how it typically unfolds…

She Is Rooting For You

June 30, 2023

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Men who have the perception of women as these ego-centric creatures who laugh at us from their sexual mountain-tops, doling out which man gets (a chance at) the divine pussy access and which man gets to squander away his time in solitude — it doesn’t work like that.

Think about it. Why do women spend so much time and effort on their appearance?

Why do they go to singles’ bars and join dating sites and give blind dates a try?

They don’t do it so that they can revel in rejecting a bunch of guys.

They’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are.

They want to meet a man. But not just any man, a great man — a man who is confident, charming, fun, and interesting.

If You Are Unsuccessful With Women, It Is 100% Your Fault. You Are Not A Victim

June 20, 2023

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Pornography, Hollywood, and other forms of media have deluded men into false perceptions of women think and how attraction works.

Porn is a falsified, artificially constructed representation of human sexuality, where attraction and arousal are instantaneous, easy and abundant without true effort.

On the other side, mainstream movies, i.e. romance porn, often portray unquestioned dedication as the ultimate way to woman’s heart. Unremarkable, piddling men will win a beautiful woman over through some grand act of devotion, reinforcing that idea that men can be mediocre and still attract beautiful women solely through sacrifice.

15 Signs She is Girlfriend Material

June 19, 2023

There is one crucial mistake that thousands of men make, that you should avoid at all cost. Approaching a girl with a weird line might result in ten minutes of awkward stammering, but choosing the wrong girlfriend, can lead to a life of regret, especially when you put a ring on her finger and a baby in her belly. By sharing the following 15 signs she is girlfriend material, I want to provide you with everything you need to know in order to make the right decision. I don’t want you to be the next guy who asks me for advice on how he can escape his toxic relationship.

How To Ask A Girl Out And Save Face If She’s Not Interested

May 25, 2023

Here is a handy guide on how to ask a girl out, yet save face for both of you if she isn’t interested:

Ask the girl the following: “Hey, I was wondering if you’d be free this ______ at ___ pm to get dinner with me?” Be extremely specific! Don’t say, “Are you free in the next decade?” or worse yet, “When are you free?”. It’s much better to say, “Are you free this Saturday at 6:30pm?”.

14 Red Flags To Look Out For When It Comes To Dating

March 15, 2023

I made a general list of red flags in women. Every situation is different. Not every red flag necessarily means the relationship is doomed, sometimes you need to just work around it. This isn’t an all inclusive list, and can usually work for both genders, but I was requested to make one specifically for women.

Be The Person You Want To Be With

February 28, 2023

We’ve seen it time and time again. That one co-worker who is obese but is only attracted to people of a healthy weight, that one cousin who prefers to date highly successful people but have no ambition whatsoever, and that one friend who you love to death but they carry themselves like they’re in a post-apocalyptic era and for some reason they only want to date Instagram models.