dating advice

How To Spot A Gold Digger

April 5, 2024

1. Understand what a gold digger is, and is not.

There’s nothing wrong with a person being concerned about your financial stability. A long-term partnership means depending on each other through the ups and downs, and being financially reliable does help with that to a degree.

The difference between a gold digger and someone who values your role as a provider is that the gold digger would deride and perhaps leave you if you lost your ability to provide for them financially.

A good person can appreciate your financial resources, but a gold digger appreciates only that, and will not see the relationship as worthwhile if you’re not well off.

Red Flags You Should Look Out For When It Comes To Dating

February 21, 2024

If she isn’t responding/engaging in conversation

She’s most likely not interested, and if she is, is it really worth it? If a girl wants to talk to you, she WILL. Nobody waits days to answer someone they’re genuinely interested in.

Do Yourself a Favor and Take Mixed Signals as a No

January 29, 2024

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If a person is interested in you romantically, they will MAKE TIME to reply to your texts (as if that’s so hard to do). If they can’t meet you on a certain day for a date, they will tell you the soonest possible alternative date and confirm it with you. They will call you back that day if they miss your call.

What Does Confidence Look Like To A Woman?

January 4, 2024

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Physically, confident guys are much more calm or deliberate in their movements. There’s not tonnes of figiting etc. They just seem to be able to settle into a position and become relaxed.

This also goes for walking – which comes across as more deliberate and natural.

They’re also not generally concerned about how much space they occupy.

Not like, randomly sprawling, but just able to keep square shoulders and longer strides.

An Easy Way To Meet People Without Using Dating Apps

November 6, 2023

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Photo by Nick Hillier

The digital dating landscape is a paradox of choice. The seemingly endless options can lead to a perpetual search for someone better, fostering a culture of disposability and a sense that no connection is truly irreplaceable. This abundance of choice might seem liberating, but it can also be profoundly draining. The cycle of swiping, chatting, and experiencing fleeting interactions can erode self-worth, as individuals may start to wonder why connections fizzle out or why they can’t seem to find that elusive ‘spark’.

Moreover, the curated personas on dating apps can exacerbate feelings of worthlessness. Users often present an idealized version of themselves, which can lead to unrealistic expectations and a sense of inadequacy when comparing oneself to others’ highlight reels. The silent rejections—unmatched, unanswered messages, ghosting—can feel personal, even though they are a common experience in the online dating realm.

17 Women Tell Guys What It Takes To Be Good In Bed

September 29, 2023

1. Listening. When we say “right there” do NOT change what you are doing!! That usually means we’re close to an orgasm and if you change something it all goes away. And please make noise! Sex should be fun, noisy, sweaty and a good time!

The Friend Zone Trap: Concealing Your True Intentions

July 28, 2023

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It’s a well-known fact that trying to enter a romantic relationship through the friend zone is an uphill battle. Despite this, many men continue to pursue connections by adopting a purely platonic approach and shying away from showing any signs of attraction. They hope that somehow, the women they are interested in will eventually see their worth and fall for them.

Here’s how it typically unfolds…

She Is Rooting For You

June 30, 2023

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Men who have the perception of women as these ego-centric creatures who laugh at us from their sexual mountain-tops, doling out which man gets (a chance at) the divine pussy access and which man gets to squander away his time in solitude — it doesn’t work like that.

Think about it. Why do women spend so much time and effort on their appearance?

Why do they go to singles’ bars and join dating sites and give blind dates a try?

They don’t do it so that they can revel in rejecting a bunch of guys.

They’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are.

They want to meet a man. But not just any man, a great man — a man who is confident, charming, fun, and interesting.

If You Are Unsuccessful With Women, It Is 100% Your Fault. You Are Not A Victim

June 20, 2023

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Pornography, Hollywood, and other forms of media have deluded men into false perceptions of women think and how attraction works.

Porn is a falsified, artificially constructed representation of human sexuality, where attraction and arousal are instantaneous, easy and abundant without true effort.

On the other side, mainstream movies, i.e. romance porn, often portray unquestioned dedication as the ultimate way to woman’s heart. Unremarkable, piddling men will win a beautiful woman over through some grand act of devotion, reinforcing that idea that men can be mediocre and still attract beautiful women solely through sacrifice.