Theodore Lee

I’ve asked her once if she wanted to take it to the next stage but got rejected, 4 years later we are talking every single day, Need to know what yall would do in my shoes. should I try again and push for a relationship or just move on even if I still love her ?

You’ve been best friends with this girl for five years, and you’ve had feelings for her all along. You even asked her out four years ago, and she turned you down. But you’re still in touch every day, and those feelings haven’t gone away. You’re wondering if you should try again or just move on.

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It’s hard for me to believe that most people are good at life. They have girlfriends, houses, 70k+ jobs at least, or 2 of the three, usually by age 26. I’m 25 and I net 37k, with a small apartment, no gf in my life.

I went to college. I felt exhausted everyday and never was able to commit to anything. Yes I’m a screw up, I just don’t get how everyone suddenly did not become a screw up. Life is exhausting and demanding.

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Look, in a world where everyone’s got an opinion and feels the need to shove it in your face, it’s easy to get caught up in the noise. Social media, gossip, and the constant barrage of unsolicited advice can make you feel like you need to have a hot take on everything. But here’s the thing: you don’t.

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We’ve all encountered that guy who prides himself on “telling it like it is” and “keeping it real.” He’s quick to share his unfiltered thoughts and opinions, no matter how rude or offensive they may be. When called out on his behavior, he doubles down, insisting that he’s just being honest and that other people are too sensitive or “can’t handle the truth.”

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One of my best friends is being cheated on by his wife. They have a lovely house and two great children together. She has been having an affair with another guy for months, keeps getting caught-out, tries to lie about it, promises to change, and then just continues to have the affair.

The most recent time she got caught, her response was to change all of the passwords on her phone, email, computer, etc. My friend has believed her lies, tried to help her as she plays the victim when confronted by him, tried marriage counselling, everything, because it seems like he can’t bring himself to admit that her continued actions are effectively ending their marriage. But, rather than simply end it, she just keeps lying and having affairs.

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In a world obsessed with materialism, status updates, filters, and likes, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. We chase after superficial goals, trying to keep up with the Joneses, all while ignoring the quiet, nagging feeling inside that something is missing. The secret to a fulfilling life isn’t found in the latest gadget or the number of followers you have. It’s found in living by your values.

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