Relationships

Navigating love and relationships often leads to a common yet misguided belief: the notion that we are responsible for “fixing” or “solving” our significant other. This idea, though rooted in care and affection, can set the stage for unhealthy dynamics and misinterpretations of what true support in a relationship looks like.

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“Settling” isn’t what we’ve made it out to be.

True settling is pretending that you’re ok with something that is completely wrong for you and you’ve always known is wrong for you.

Anything beyond that isn’t settling, it is simply becoming realistic.

Think about your life currently, did it go exactly as you planned and you reached every dream and marked off everything on your bucket list?

Did you grow up in the ideal family?

If you had kids, could you guarantee that they turned out exactly as you hoped they would?

So why do we place this type of standard on significant others?

A million different factors go into one single individual. It is IMPOSSIBLE for a person to have 80-90% of your list checked off. You cant formulate a human being.

So when you end up in a relationship with someone who you are intrinsically compatible with who is at least moderately attractive and committed to your relationship, it is a win so please recognize it as such. you dont have to be with that person, but considering it “settling” because there might be better out there is the epitome of fool’s gold. Don’t fall for that trap.

– kellydayscruff

The initial stages of a relationship are often marked by intense emotions and an overwhelming sense of euphoria – commonly known as the honeymoon phase. Everything seems perfect, and the couple feels an unshakeable bond. However, as this phase wa [Read more…] about Putting in the Work: The Essential Ingredient for a Lasting Relationship

Is a visit from the “in-laws”every 1.5 months for 2 weeks too much?

I NEVER agreed to it. I said one week max. But once they’re here they would ask to stay. Now suddenly 2 weeks in the normal. I said if it’s two weeks it has to be two months in between. Then it inches closer together. Now the norm has become 2 weeks every 1.5 months…and shaving off days of the in between.

They’re overbearing, take over the house, criticize and comment on how to raise our child.

And I feel like I’m being gaslit into thinking that it’s not even that often or that much because they just want to see their grandchild.

I’m going insane. I didn’t get off to a good start with them. Basically treated me like an insect until I got pregnant.

Theyre in the east coast and we’re in the Midwest.

What do I even do. Even if I had a good relationship with them I feel like it’s still A LOT of time to basically be living with them.

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Discussing sensitive topics with your significant other can be challenging, especially when it pertains to their health and well-being. When broaching the subject of weight gain, it’s essential to approach the conversation with empathy, respect, and love. This article will provide guidance on how to address your partner’s weight gain while prioritizing their feelings and maintaining a healthy, supportive relationship.

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Intimacy plays a vital role in any romantic relationship, and for many couples, a satisfying sexual connection is an essential component of their bond. However, it’s not uncommon for couples to experience mismatched libidos, where one partner desires sex more frequently than the other. While this disparity in sexual desire can be challenging, it’s important to remember that it’s a common issue, and with open communication and understanding, couples can work through it together. In this article, we’ll explore what couples should do if they find themselves in a situation of mismatched libidos.

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In the intricate dance of human relationships, trust is the rhythm that keeps the partners in sync. But when lies enter the equation, they act like a discordant note, disrupting the harmony and eventually leading to the erosion of this fundamental bond. The perils of lying in a relationship cannot be overstated, for they gradually chip away at the foundation of trust, which once broken, is challenging to rebuild.

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Finding a life partner is one of the most significant decisions we make in our lives. It’s not just about the butterflies in your stomach or the romantic dates; it’s about finding someone who will be your partner through the ups and downs of life. So, how do you know if you’re about to say “I do” to the right person? Here are some signs that you’re on the right track.

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In the realm of human connections, the tapestry of a healthy relationship is woven with various threads — trust, love, communication, and the often-understated strand of deep mutual respect. As a relationship coach and writer, I’ve observed that while love is the melody that draws people together, respect is the harmony that sustains the tune over time. Let’s delve into why deep mutual respect is not just a part of a healthy relationship but the very core of it.

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The very essence of a relationship is the bond formed between two people who come together with their own perspectives, experiences, and emotions. Like the intertwining branches of two trees growing side by side, partners in a relationship will find moments where they may not align perfectly. It is during these moments that conflicts arise. However, the notion of “winning” in such disputes is a flawed concept that doesn’t foster growth. Here’s why.

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