
I’ve been with my husband for 3 years, married for 2. He has a female friend who jumps into his arms when she sees him, which has always made me a little uncomfortable. I talked to him about it once, but since it wasn’t a huge issue, I let it go.
We hang out with her family sometimes, and she lives out of town, so we don’t see her often. This past weekend she was visiting. When she arrived, she did the jump-into-his-arms thing, which I expected.
Then she sat on his lap. She looked at me and asked, “This is ok, right?” It really wasn’t, but with everyone around I didn’t want to seem jealous, so I shrugged it off. She asked again a few minutes later. And again. Later she told me they’re like “brother and sister” and mentioned his ex-wife didn’t like it, calling her a bitch.









