Dating Advice

Why You Should Learn to Walk Away

January 25, 2022 Leave a Comment

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Many men have fragile egos when it comes to women. I’m not judging, my pride used to get the best of me, too. I couldn’t handle the reality of being rejected or losing a girl — it was one of my worst fears. I lived with a scarcity mentality.

Scarcity mentality is the belief that there’s a limited number of opportunities in your life. With women, if you miss out on a single chance, you’ll never get another like it. What happens is that you view your connections as win or lose situations. It’s black or white:

What Are Some Red Flags I Should Look Out For When It Comes To Dating?

January 14, 2022 Leave a Comment

If she isn’t responding/engaging in conversation

She’s most likely not interested, and if she is, is it really worth it? If a girl wants to talk to you, she WILL. Nobody waits days to answer someone they’re genuinely interested in.

If she’s obsessed with you

This might seem great at first, but can turn south quick. Codependency is not healthy, and can create a foundation for control, manipulation, and abuse later on. It’s better to have a life outside of your relationship, rather than let your life revolve around it.

Why You Need to Go Out and Get Rejected

January 5, 2022 Leave a Comment

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Why do you take rejection so personally? Why does it hurt you so much – for days, weeks, months, or even years?

The short answer is because you just haven’t been rejected enough. You haven’t survived through it enough times to be able to say, “Hey, that wasn’t so bad.”

The long answer is because when you’ve worked so hard to protect yourself, anything that threatens your ego is devastating.

11 Signs That Your Girlfriend Might Be Cheating On You

January 4, 2022 Leave a Comment

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Remember when you were young and you thought love was this invincible, bulletproof force that was immune to outside influence, impervious to evil and capable of overcoming all obstacles? And, then you found out your girlfriend was sleeping with your best friend since a week after you met, and that bubble was ruptured, never to be restored again.

How To Spot A Gold Digger

December 22, 2021 Leave a Comment

1. Understand what a gold digger is, and is not.

There’s nothing wrong with a person being concerned about your financial stability. A long-term partnership means depending on each other through the ups and downs, and being financially reliable does help with that to a degree.

The difference between a gold digger and someone who values your role as a provider is that the gold digger would deride and perhaps leave you if you lost your ability to provide for them financially.

A good person can appreciate your financial resources, but a gold digger appreciates only that, and will not see the relationship as worthwhile if you’re not well off.

What To Do After Your Partner Cheats On You

November 11, 2021 Leave a Comment

I have been through this. I found out my wife had a threesome with a friend and his wife, then caught her with another guy. The first time I found out, I felt like you feel. Like someone has torn your soul out of your chest, like the most precious thing you had in your life was stolen from you. You feel like you will never get it back, like you’re made of glass and someone demolished you. I know how you feel.

When People Want To See You, They Will Make The Time

November 5, 2021 Leave a Comment

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We are all busy. We all work. Some work long hours. Some have kids. Some are single Parents. Some of us work 70 80 hours a week. Whatever your situation is. Someone if they care about you enough will make the time for you.

The 7 Habits That Can Destroy Your Relationship

November 4, 2021 Leave a Comment

1. Allowing Boundaries to Be Violated

Plain and simple.

If you set a boundary and make it known (e.g. you state it explicitly) and then your partner violates it, you are unwittingly allowing for the long term deterioriation of your relationship.

For example, if you work from home and tell your partner,

“From 10 am until 4 pm, I’m ‘at the office’. Please don’t interrupt me or distract me during this time unless it’s really urgent” and then your partner consistently barges into your office, stealing your productive time and preventing you from pursuing the professional success you desire…it is your duty to make it clear that a boundary has been violated.

A Woman Who Is Friends With Her Ex Is A Huge Red Flag

October 28, 2021 Leave a Comment

The one who’s friends with her ex or exits dating this type of girl is like dating a time bomb.

You see most of the time girls who still keep in touch with their exes, still have some feelings for them, especially if the breakup is recent.

This means when you have one big argument with her or you make her mad or something, she’ll be just one text away from a guy who she liked and liked her. And she used to date a guy with who she had sex and has shared really good memories with.

How to Write a Good First Message in Online Dating

September 23, 2021 Leave a Comment

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In online dating, you’re going to competing with a massive male population. Too many men bombard women with boring statements, lewd comments, and over-the-top sappiness. The best thing you can do is be interesting, intriguing, and please, show some class.