Let’s get one thing straight: pain is built into the system. It’s like gravity or awkward small talk at family gatherings—no matter how clever you are, you can’t escape it. The only real power you have is deciding which brand of discomfort you want to sign up for.
Most of us spend years, maybe even decades, chasing the dream of a pain-free existence. We tell ourselves if we land the right job, find the right partner, drive the right car, and maybe buy the world’s most comfortable pillow, then life will finally feel effortless. That’s the story culture sells us: the good life is just around the corner, if only you can outrun your problems.
