
I love my girlfriend. I want to say this to establish that this behavioral shift is what’s making me reconsider things, and not deeply buried emotions or whatever.
We’ve been together for 4 years. She had a tough kickstart in her career as she started around covid time. But so did I and many others as well. I told her I supported her and stood by her side, at times when I too was struggling.
She gives up to stress so easily and doesn’t try her best, which isn’t a fault on its own. But then she just blames everyone and everything for all of it.
Now, she has a stable job that pays ~$65k with student loan around 25k. She quit 2 months ago because she didn’t want to work anymore. She wants to stay at home, do home chores, leisure and personal care, entertainment, and nothing else.








