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Picture Of The Day

Picture of the Day

SBF Prison

First photo of Sam Bankman-Fried in jail at MDC Brooklyn

Aphoto of Sam Bankman-Fried, the disgraced founder of cryptocurrency exchange FTX, has surfaced, revealing a markedly changed appearance since his incarceration. The photo, made public by crypto journalist Tiffany Fong, offers a rare insight into Bankman-Fried’s life in prison.

Tiffany Fong disclosed that the photograph was provided by a former gang member known as G Lock, who shared his confinement space with Bankman-Fried. The timing of the photo, taken on December 17, 2023, was significant as it was one of the rare occasions—specifically Christmas and Father’s Day—when inmates are permitted to capture moments through photographs.

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Life Advice

What is the Psychology Behind ‘Nice Guys’?

Nice Guys

The “Nice Guy Syndrome” is a term that has gained traction over the years, referring to men who believe that by being agreeable, accommodating, and eschewing conflict, they will be more likable, and as a result, more successful in their relationships and life in general.

However, this behavior often leads to frustration, resentment, and a lack of fulfillment. To understand why “Nice Guys” behave the way they do, it’s crucial to delve into the psychological roots of this syndrome and its implications on their lives.

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Dating

How Many Red Flags Can You Spot In This Situation?

Red Flags

I started dating this guy that I met online three months ago, and we’ve been out on a few dates. The first date went really well. Then the problems started up a day after the first date. In fact he asked twice not to block him before the date could end. He then apologised for saying he liked me so many times during the date and calling me beautiful etc.

The day after the date he started getting more clingy than usual and said that he really needs my attention. He went as far as saying that he’s already obsessed and craves my attention, which I took as a joke because it was so soon, but he looked serious and said that he sees a lot of potential with us. I thought that was kinda quick but we have been chatting online for a while and got close on an emotional level so idk if that’s normal or not. I do like him but it’s a bit much sometimes especially since I haven’t dated in 4 years and forgotten what is was like to be in a relationship.

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Links

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A Psychiatrist Tried to Quit Gambling. Betting Apps Kept Her Hooked – WSJ

25 Nostalgic Photos That Will Bring Up Memories of the Good Ol’ Days – Ned Hardy

Inside Aleksei Navalny’s Final Months, in His Own Words – NY Times

She Played Daisy Duke on The Dukes Of Hazzard. See Catherine Bach Now at 69 – Wanderer

One of the best biographies ever written. I recommend this book to every voracious consumer of history – Amazon

Navalny’s widow says she will continue his fight against the Kremlin – PBS

The No. 1 resume mistake according to ex-Amazon recruiter: You see it ‘all the way up to the C-suite’ – Make It

Inside the Biggest Art Fraud in History – Smithsonian

3 Ways to Make Your Writing Clearer – HBR

AI Girlfriends Are Harvesting Your Most Private Info – Giant Robot

Trivia Question of the Day – Ned Hardy

If you want to get into the world of Fountain Pens, this is the one. It’s near indestructible, reliable, simple and elegant in its pragmatism – Amazon

“I’m 23 Years Old, but I Look 8,” How Star Shauna Rae Lives With Her Special Condition and Goes on Dates – Bright Side

BB King breaks a guitar string mid-song and handles it like pro, 1985 – Reddit

Spike Jonze’s Her holds up a decade later – The Verge

Red-Pilled Americans Explain Why Men Should Never Get Married – The Onion

Father Feels Worthless After Finding Out His Son Is Worth Millions – Bored Panda

The Most Underrated Action Movies of the 1980s – Den of Geek

Why you should really stop charging your phone overnight – ZD Net

Life Advice

Why You Should Always Have a Lawyer When Talking to the Police

The iconic Miranda warning – “You have the right to remain silent…” – is a phrase deeply ingrained in popular culture. Yet, many people underestimate its importance, especially when interacting with law enforcement. While cooperating with the police might seem intuitive, exercising your right to remain silent and seeking legal counsel before engaging with them is crucial for safeguarding your rights and avoiding potential legal pitfalls.

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Answers

What is Hybristophilia?

Hybristophilia

Hybristophilia (also known as the Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome) is a form of paraphilia (or perversion) involving sexual attraction to people who have committed some sort of “outrage”. The term is usually associated with fans of notorious criminals.

Many high-profile criminals, particularly those who have committed atrocious crimes, receive “fan mail” in prison that is sometimes amorous or sexual, presumably as a result of this phenomenon. In some cases, admirers of these criminals have gone on to marry the object of their affections in prison.

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Life Advice

No One Made You Do Anything

"I lashed out at my partner because she was being rude and insensitive"

“I snapped at my coworker because he kept dismissing my ideas.”

“I honked aggressively and made a rude gesture because the other driver cut me off.”

“I gave my sibling the silent treatment because they criticized my lifestyle choices."

“I posted a harsh comment on social media because someone’s post offended me.”

“I raised my voice at the service staff because they got my order wrong.”

In the heat of the moment, when emotions run high and patience wears thin, it’s all too easy to point fingers and place blame. Whether it’s a heated exchange with a partner, a tense disagreement with a coworker, or a fleeting moment of frustration on the road, we often find ourselves justifying our reactions as the inevitable outcome of someone else’s actions.

These moments of conflict, while human, challenge us to examine a deeper aspect of our behavior: the principle of personal responsibility.

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Actors

Whatever Happened to Papillon Soo, the ‘Me Love You Long Time’ Girl in Full Metal Jacket?

Papillon Soo - Full Metal Jacket

It’s okay if you don’t recognize her name or picture right off the bat, because you’ve probably heard Papillon Soo quoted throughout pop culture so often you don’t realize it’s her. The model only made a brief foray into acting during her ongoing career, but it counted in ways that paid off for her big time.

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Links

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17 Photos That Will Put a Smile on Your Face – Ned Hardy

Alexei Navalny, prominent Putin foe, dies in Arctic jail – Reuters

Attention cat owners! The guy who ran the world’s largest cat shelter says this is the best litter pan, period. They clean extraordinarily easily; they carry zero “smell” residue, they last absolutely forever – Amazon

Ben Armstrong, better known as BitBoy, was once the most popular cryptocurrency YouTuber in the world. Now his empire has collapsed – NY Times

This Is Exactly What It Takes To Make Your Partner Feel Valued – Fatherly

Movie Theaters’ Secret Revenue Weapon: Elaborate Popcorn Merch – Hollywood Reporter

Cisco to lay off more than 4,000 employees to focus on artificial intelligence – NY Post

How a ragtag band of internet friends became the best at forecasting world events – VOX

Three Multimillion Dollar Homes on a Cliff Appear at Risk of Falling Into the Ocean – AD

Trivia Question of the Day – Ned Hardy

These water leak detector are a no brainer for homeowners. They are super sensitive, like if you touch the sensors and your fingers are even slightly damp, it will go off, and they are super loud – Amazon

When Job Candidates Lie—and How Recruiters Bust Them – WSJ

A Beginner’s Guide to Drinking Better Tea – Bon Appetit

What it takes to earn the title ‘Best Ranger,’ according to the first officer to ever do so – Task and Purpose

The Major Signs You are Dating a Manipulative Girlfriend and What To Do About It – Knowledge For Men

12 Little Lies to Stop Telling Yourself – Marc and Angel

Dude can’t handle his liquor at wedding, becomes belligerent and assaults guests and police and then gets shot..dumbass – PoliceActivity

Japan readies ‘last hope’ measures to stop falling births – Financial Times

You’re Not Imagining It, Blinding Headlights Are a Real Problem – Jalopnik