As of June this year, my partner and I are celebrating 25 years of being together and 20 years of marriage.
Instead of Saying “I Don’t Have Time” Try Saying “It’s Not A Priority”
Alright, folks, let’s get real for a second. How many times have you heard someone say, “I don’t have time”? Hell, how many times have you said it yourself? We throw it around like it’s a valid excuse for everything from not working out to not calling your mom back.
But here’s the brutal truth: “I don’t have time” is total BS. What you really mean is, “It’s not a priority.”
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The Power of Honoring Your Commitments
Let’s talk about commitments. You know, those pesky things you agree to do and then immediately want to bail on? Yeah, those. We’ve all been there, staring at our calendar, wondering why on earth we said yes to that thing next Thursday. But here’s the kicker: how you handle your commitments says a lot about you. And not just to others, but to yourself.
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Women freaks out on boyfriend at airport – Reddit
Lets Take A Stroll Through The Art Museum – Ned Hardy
This is probably the best multitool you can get if you are on a budget – Amazon
The AI-Powered Future of Coding Is Near – WIRED
I Use Cross Ventilation and Turn Down the AC to Save Big Bucks on Electric – CNET
Here’s what’s (probably) on the other side of a black hole – Science Focus
The Lucid Air Pure review: Lower weight, better steering, amazing efficiency – ARS Technica
Am I Dooming My Whole Flight by Not Using Airplane Mode? – Thrillist
The biggest names in AI have teamed up to promote AI security – The Verge
Weird Rules Olympic Gymnasts Have To Follow – Grunge
Pictures and Videos of the Day – Ned Hardy
This smartphone tripod has octopus style legs and lets you get great shots from any angle and from anywhere – Amazon
15 Best Book to Movie Adaptations Ever – SNIP
The Hard Core Last Words of 10 Famous Killers – Linkiest
The 6 Leading Causes of Divorce – Psychology Today
Rare footage shows uncontacted indigenous tribe in Peru – CNN
Avoid These Mistakes All Beginner Gardeners Make – Life Hacker
Ranked: The Most Reliable Car Brands in the U.S. – Visual Capitalist
Surreal Photos of Small-Town American Swingers in the 2000s – VICE
Stop Taking Financial Advice from Gambling Addicts on the Internet
Listen up, because this is important: You wouldn’t take financial advice from a broke uncle, so why are you listening to gambling addicts on the internet?
Let’s talk about those online forums and subreddits where people brag about their “diamond hands” and “YOLO” trades. You know the ones I’m talking about. These aren’t investment strategies – they’re cries for help masked as bravado.
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Why Saying ‘I Told You So’ Is a Hollow Victory
We’ve all been there. You warned your friend about that sketchy investment. You told your sibling not to date that obviously toxic person. You advised your coworker against taking that risky job offer. And when things inevitably go south, you’re left with a burning desire to say those four little words: “I told you so.”
But here’s the thing: saying “I told you so” is the ultimate lose-lose. It feels satisfying in the moment, but in reality, it’s a trap that leaves everyone worse off. Let’s break down why.
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Here’s What Retirement With Less Than $1 Million Looks Like in America – WSJ
15 Fascinating Photos You Must See – Ned Hardy
Nows the time to get the Sony Noise Canceling Headphones, they are 43% off right now! – Amazon
13 Signs for Gauging Your Growth in Character – The Art of Manliness
How to Do the World’s Greatest Stretch – Men’s Health
How to stop checking on your ex — and everyone else you love to hate — on social media – VOX
How to take things less personally: Always blaming yourself or assuming others think ill of you? A therapist shares ways to break these self-critical habits – Psyche
15 Short Male Celebrities Who Challenged the Unrealistic Beauty Standards of Hollywood – Bright Side
Once You Start Testosterone Therapy, It’s Extremely Hard To Stop – Fatherly
30 Ways to Be Kind: Simple Ways to Spread a Little Love – Tiny Buddha
Historical Photo of the Day – Ned Hardy
This laundry powder is amazing! A small bag is 50+ loads and they get almost every stain out and without the help of a stain remover – Amazon
Find the source of your self-sabotage and neutralize it – Brent Huras
An Interview With the Longest-Serving Brothel Madam in America – VICE
Vigorous Exercise Could Add Years to Your Life – Runners World
How to Set Boundaries With Relatives, According to Family Therapists – TIME
How to Talk to Your Parents About Their Estate Plans Without It Being Awkward – Life Hacker
Incel tries to pickup girls. Gets arrested for sexual harassment – Reddit
The 24 Best Places to Go in 2024 – Traveler
The Eerie, Influential Afterlife of ‘Ecco the Dolphin’ – The Ringer
The Dumping Grounds
If You Don’t Know Yourself, Then You Will Wander Aimlessly throughout Your Whole Life
Let’s face it: most of us are walking around with our heads stuffed full of ideas about who we are, what we want, and how the world works. The problem? A good chunk of those ideas are probably wrong.
This isn’t me being a jerk. It’s just how our brains work. We’re really good at lying to ourselves, especially about the stuff that matters most.
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Why Data Breaches Are Empowering Scammers Like Never Before – Shield and Fortify
There Are Some Things You Just Can’t Argue With – Ned Hardy
The Apple AirPod Pros are 32% Off Right Now! – Amazon
The Perfect Day in Paris, According to Locals and Tastemakers – Thrillist
The Rise of Stealth Shopping: How Americans Are Hiding Big Purchases From Their Partners – WSJ
“Worst All-Time” National Anthem Stuns Home Run Derby Fans And Players – Page Six
Dirty diaper resold on Amazon ruined a family business, report says – ARS Technica
10 profound answers about the math behind AI – Big Think
The best games of 2024 so far – NPR
Cutting-Edge Technology Could Massively Reduce the Amount of Energy Used for Air Conditioning – Wired
The Powerful Effect of Bringing Play Into Your Life – Zen Habits
Ranked: European Countries by the Average Age Adults Move Out – Visual Capitalist
Who killed the world? @alv9n analyzed the top 200 sci-fi films from every decade. Here’s what he learned.- The Pudding
24 People Reveal the Subtle Sign That Someone Is Very Intelligent – Ned Hardy
This Awesome Belkin 3-1 Wireless Charging Station is Also 32% Off Right Now – Amazon
How to Prepare for the Dentist if You Haven’t Been in Forever – Life Hacker
Brain implant patient says OpenAI’s tech helps him communicate with family – CNBC
Why True Happiness Is Not Just About Reaching Your Goals – Tiny Buddha
9 Modern Dating Myths Every Man Should Ignore – Knowledge For Men
6 Dangerous Relationship Patterns All Couples Should Know – Fatherly
The Science Behind Bloating on Planes—and How to Avoid It – Traveler