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Author: Theodore Lee

Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity,  you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.
Advice Column

“My wife shares every detail of our marriage with her parents”

My wife and I had a really ugly fight recently. We kept it private at first because my parents were visiting. During those few days, she became distant with them too and barely spoke unless necessary.

Then her parents suddenly came over, and I realized she had been sharing every detail of our fights and relationship problems with them. What started as a private issue between us turned into a confrontation between both families. My wife and my mother got into a loud argument in front of everyone. I tried to stay calm at first, but eventually I snapped too and said hurtful things. At one point, her parents even suggested that if we do not want to stay together, we should separate.

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Advice Column

“A girl I liked chose another guy over me for his money”

I used to think people were exaggerating when they said some women only care about money, status, or what a man can offer until I experienced something that changed my perspective.

I liked a girl I worked with. We sat next to each other, and from the beginning there was obvious mutual interest. But over time things started feeling inconsistent. Replies became slower, sometimes she would not respond at all, and the excuse was always that she was busy.

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Links

Linkage

Why Scam Calls Are Suddenly So Convincing (And How to Not Get Got) – Shield And Fortify

A Damn Fine Collection of Fascinating Photos – Ned Hardy

A vacuum sealer keeps food fresher way longer, cuts down on freezer burn and waste, and makes it ridiculously easy to meal prep or buy groceries in bulk without stuff going bad. – Amazon

Wholesale inflation jumps 6% in April on annual basis, biggest increase since 2022 – CNBC

‘Irresponsible’: backlash as Utah approves datacenter twice the size of Manhattan – The Guardian

Photos of Trump in China for talks with Xi Jinping – AP News

The Free TSA Shortcut Most Travelers Still Don’t Know About – Afar

These Are The 17 Oldest Surviving Photographs Known To Humankind, And They’re Stunning – Ranker

28 People Share The Purchase That Made Them Realize Inflation Has Completely Lost The Plot – Ned Hardy

The Ninja Crispi is basically an air fryer for people who hate bulky appliances — it cooks food ridiculously fast and crispy in glass containers you can also use to store leftovers, so cleanup and meal prep become stupidly easy. – Amazon

Everything You Need To Know About Internet Safety For Kids – Fatherly

24 hours with 3 teenage birders: Welcome to the World Series of Birding – NPR

In San Francisco, the Tents of Homeless People Are Disappearing – NYTimes

How Do I Get My Picky Eater Off A Chicken Nugget-Based Diet? – Archive.ph

Handicapped man pushes ladder. Makes worker fall. Deserves a beating! – Reddit

10 Heavy Things We Always Wait Too Long to Let Go Of – Marc And Angel

Products

Caveman Approved Products of the Week

The Kershaw Brawler Pocketknife is a small tool that earns its pocket space

A pocketknife does not need to be flashy to be useful. The Kershaw Brawler is the kind of everyday blade that comes out for boxes, packaging, rope, tags, and all the small cutting jobs that show up without warning.

It feels more like a practical tool than something trying too hard, which is usually the better version of this category.

Kershaw Brawler pocketknife

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Advice Column

“Turning 40 soon and feeling lost. Is this normal?”

I’m turning 40 soon, and instead of feeling settled, I feel more lost than ever. I always imagined that by this age I’d have a house, career momentum, and a clearer sense that my life was working. Instead, I feel stuck.

I waited too long to buy a home, and now the market feels completely out of reach for what I can afford. My job feels stagnant and underpaid compared to bigger companies in my field, but every time I apply elsewhere, I get rejected. Sometimes I’m told I’m overqualified, other times not experienced enough. It’s destroying my confidence and making me question whether I’m even good at what I do anymore.

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