I consider myself quite ugly, I’d say I’m a -40/10, I’m 25 and never had a girlfriend, no girl has ever been interested in me, but whenever we go out my friends get girls swarming all over them.
Or should I just give up dating altogether?
The Fundamental Error That Keeps You Angry
Look, we’ve all been there. You’re driving down the highway, minding your own business, listening to a podcast about the fall of Rome or whatever, and suddenly some guy in a beige sedan cuts you off without a blinker.
In exactly 0.03 seconds, your brain makes a decision. It doesn’t think, “Oh, that driver made a careless mistake.”
No. Your brain screams: “That guy is a piece of human garbage who deserves to rot in a ditch.”
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What Reels, TikToks, and Shorts Are Doing to Our Brains
No one at the companies behind TikTok, Instagram Reels, or YouTube Shorts calls their products “addiction machines.” That phrase tests badly in earnings calls.
They prefer words like engagement, retention, stickiness, and time spent. Each one sounds neutral. None of them is. Together, they describe a system that is rewiring how hundreds of millions of people think, feel, and behave — in real time, at global scale, and with almost no meaningful guardrails.
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21 Historical Photos and the Stories Behind Them – Ned Hardy
If you want to live a long life, where your quality of life is just as important as your years, you should read this book—it’s packed with practical, science-backed advice on how to stay healthy, strong, and independent well into old age – Amazon
James Bond films ranked: Every 007 movie from worst to best – The Independent
The world’s most powerful passports in 2026 – with one European country jumping from sixth to third place – Time Out
How the Buffett family plans to give away more than $150 billion – CNBC
Soul singer who has 2.8million Spotify listeners is revealed to be an AI-generated FAKE – MSN
The U.S. government sold its first tranche of Venezuelan crude, valued at $500 million – Quartz
24 Nostalgic Photos That Feel Like Opening a Box You Forgot You Had – Ned Hardy
Super underrated kitchen tool…Great at scooping and scraping. Whacking a block of cheese or butter in half. Crushing garlic cloves. Cracking peppercorns. Dividing dough – Amazon
How to Use Your Health Savings Account in Retirement – Kiplinger
Australia banned social media for under 16s a month ago — here’s how it’s going – CNBC
Former NCAA players and fixers charged over rigged basketball games, prosecutors say – AP News
Will MCU Success Return in ‘Avengers: Doomsday’? – The Ringer
I started taking solo trips for my birthday years ago. Now that I’m in my 40s, it’s my favorite way to celebrate. – DNYUZ
How Veganism Got Cooked: Plant-based eating was supposed to be the future. Then meat came roaring back. – Archive.ph
What I Learned After Trying Out Every Exoskeleton at CES – Lifehacker
What Teddy Roosevelt has to do with Trump’s moves in Venezuela and Greenland – NPR
The Dumping Grounds
Caveman Approved Products of the Week
This parenting book is for all the parents who want to break unhealthy cycles and raise their children with more awareness, care, and intention than they themselves were given.
Don’t Get a PhD in History (Unless You Hate Yourself)
Let’s cut the romanticism and get straight to the point: getting a PhD in history is not just a bad idea—it’s the academic equivalent of jumping out of a plane and discovering halfway down that your parachute is actually a book on the historiography of 13th-century Burgundy.
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“29 years-old, no sign of moving out from home.”
I’m 29M, I’ve had a couple of girls tell me because I live with my parents that they wouldn’t date me. Am I gonna be single until I move out?
Thing is, I don’t want to. My parents like having me around because we all help out around the house & I pay my equal share. It’s a hell of a lot cheaper obviously & I’m only just about to qualify as an electrician soon & currently on minimum wage. I know it’s custom to move out now but it’s so expensive & I live in a real nice house that my standard of living & having money to do stuff would basically be non-existent if I do move as a single person. Is that just life & you gotta live alone to meet someone?
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Poll of the Day
I’ve been married for almost ten years. Two and a half years ago, my wife had an affair and became pregnant by another man. I found out midway through the pregnancy.
The biological father did not want to be involved and legally gave up his parental rights. I chose to stay, adopt the baby, and raise her as my own. She is my daughter in every way that matters, but she is not biologically mine.
We have been rebuilding our marriage month by month since then. We are now expecting another baby together. This one is biologically mine. On the surface, our life looks stable and even happy.
But privately, I am struggling with a question I cannot seem to escape.
I love my daughter deeply. I do not regret her. But I still carry the shock of how everything happened.
Did I make the right choice by staying?
The “Perfect Time” Is a Lie That’s Killing Your Life
You are telling yourself a story. It’s a very seductive story, and it goes something like this:
“I’ll write that book when things settle down at work.”
“I’ll start traveling when I have X amount of savings.”
“I’ll get back in shape once the holidays are over.”
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