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There’s a moment that happens in a lot of families that feels weirdly universal.
A teenager who used to happily wave at you in public suddenly pretends not to know you at the mall. You pick them up from school and they ask you to park “like… way over there.” You crack a joke in front of their friends and they look at you like you just detonated a bomb in the middle of their social life.
And if you’re a parent, it can feel personal.
You think: What happened to my sweet kid?
I never thought I’d be the guy writing about this, but here we are. I’m 33, my wife is 28, and my ex-wife is 29. Over the past year, the two of them have become genuine, certified best friends. Not “we tolerate each other for his sake” friends. Not “we’re polite at events” friends. Actual, pickleball-league-playing, hiking-on-weekends, calling-each-other-at-1AM best friends. And I’m still trying to wrap my head around the whole thing.
Let me back up.
I’m 25 and my girlfriend is 23. She has a noticeable facial scar, and my family has always made jokes about it because they have a dark sense of humor. I kept telling her that’s just how they are and that they didn’t actually mean anything by it, but she’s never liked being around them because of it.
A few months ago, my parents hosted a big birthday dinner for my dad and I really wanted my girlfriend to come. She was hesitant because she was worried my family would say something rude again. I reassured her that everything would be fine and told her it mattered to me that she be there. She finally agreed, but she warned me that if my family crossed the line again, I better not defend it or minimize it.
Fear gets a bad reputation.
People treat fear like it’s some kind of disease. Something to eliminate. Something to medicate, avoid, numb, or scroll away.
But most of the time, fear is just information.
The problem is that we’ve trained ourselves to interpret fear as a stop sign instead of a compass.
A Few Photos To Remind You That Life Is Beautiful – Ned Hardy
If you want a mobile controller that actually feels like a real console controller instead of a cramped phone accessory, this is ridiculously comfortable, responsive, and easily one of the best values in mobile gaming right now. – Amazon
The United States has choked off Cuba’s fuel supply, plunging the already impoverished island into an acute energy crisis. – Archive.ph
SpaceX Is Aiming to Go Public on June 12 in What Stands to Be Biggest IPO Ever – Reuters
Honda makes its first annual loss in 70 years – BBC News
What Will It Take to Get A.I. Out of Schools? – Archive.ph
That “viral” song, movie, meme, influencer, and celebrity drama was probably the product of a stealth marketing campaign. – Archive.is
How To Raise Curious Kids In A World Designed To Distract Them – Todays Parent
This Is What They Are Serving School Kids For Lunch Around The World – Ned Hardy
If you want a cheap gym upgrade that absolutely torches your forearms and grip strength, this make every curl, row, and carry feel twice as effective without changing your workout. – Amazon
What’s The Average Grocery Bill For A Family Of Four In 2026? – Scary Mommy
6 passengers from hantavirus-hit cruise ship arrive in Australia for 3-week quarantine – PBS
The US and Cuba intensify negotiations as the island’s collapse deepens – El País
Silicon Valley Wants to Put a Chip in Your Brain – Politico
The lab-grown brain that can play video games – The Times
The First Reactions to ‘The Mandalorian and Grogu’ Are Here – Gizmodo
Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more.
You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement.
I’m starting to realize I don’t respect my husband anymore. He is constantly insecure about our relationship. If I’m not visibly excited the second he walks through the door, he assumes I don’t want him around, even though I hug him and tell him I missed him. If we haven’t had sex in a week because I’ve been on my period, he gets insecure about intimacy. If I show him affection, he questions whether I actually mean it or if I’m just doing it out of obligation.
You’re standing at the edge of one of the biggest decisions of your life, and there’s a small voice in your head asking, Is this really the right person? I get it. Choosing who to marry isn’t a casual Friday night decision. This is the person who’s going to be with you through the best and worst moments, someone who will challenge you, encourage you, and maybe even drive you a little crazy sometimes. So how do you know if you’re making the right choice?
Let’s cut to the chase: a country with a declining birth rate is like a car running on empty. You might be cruising smoothly now, but sooner or later, you’re going to stall. And when a nation’s population begins to shrink, the gears of its entire system—economics, social structures, even its identity—start grinding to a halt.
Humanity faces an uncertain fate as experts brace for superintelligent AI – Telegraph
26 Nostalgic Photos for Anyone Who Misses the Way Things Used to Feel – Ned Hardy
If you want to stave off screen time for your kid, this is honestly one of the best parenting purchases out there because it keeps them entertained with stories, music, and podcasts without handing them an iPad or phone – Amazon
Trillions of miles of data: Your car is spying on you, and it’s only just the beginning – BBC News
Data centers are coming for rural America – Archive.ph
Cuba says it has completely run out of fuel, blames U.S. embargo – Upi
After Killing Encrypted DMs, Mark Zuckerberg Wants You to Trust His New Encrypted AI Chat – Gizmodo
Nearly 50,000 Lake Tahoe residents have to find a new power source after their energy source looks to redirect lines to data centers – Fortune
Lets Take A Stroll Through The Art Museum – Ned Hardy
A Waterpik blasts out the stuff your toothbrush misses, makes your mouth feel dentist-clean in 60 seconds, and is way easier to stick with than traditional flossing. – Amazon
Federal agents arrest visitor accused of throwing rock at Hawaiian monk seal – Hawaiinewsnow
Meet the Sad Wives of AI – Archive.ph
China: Then and now in photos – Reuters
Ranked: The World’s Most Prosperous Countries – Visual Capitalist
The rise of Fafo parenting: is this the end of gentle child rearing? – The Guardian
Kash Patel’s Five-Step Guide to Running a Kickass FBI – The Ringer
