Category: Advice Column

I’ve been dating for two years, but only a handful of guys, and I’ve taken breaks in between. I’ve noticed a pattern: I’m drawn to emotionally unavailable men, addicted to the highs and lows—the waiting for a text, the rush when it comes, and the anxiety when they go cold. I try to prove my worth to them, but when it doesn’t work out, my self-esteem crashes. I always let them back into my life, too.

I’ve been seeing this woman for a couple of months now, and honestly, I’m starting to fall for her. When it’s good, it’s amazing. We click, we laugh, the chemistry is real. But I can’t shake the feeling that she’s keeping me at arm’s length, and I keep finding myself second-guessing everything.

My friend just found out his wife has been cheating on him. To make matters worse, this isn’t the first time she’s crossed a line—she’s been emotionally checked out for years, hasn’t worked a day since they got married, and doesn’t lift a finger around the house. She’s shameless about the affair, and somehow still finds ways to make him feel like the problem.

Does anyone else feel totally demoralized when scrolling through Reddit or FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) forums and seeing 30-year-olds with $500k+ net worths? It’s like everywhere I look, someone my age (or younger!) is either a high-earning software engineer or a genius investor who bought Amazon at $3 and has been maxing out every retirement account since birth. Meanwhile, I’m here just trying to make sure I don’t accidentally pay my electric bill late again.

I 24F have been with my bf 25m for 4 years straight , we have been through hell and back together, lived in multiple places together and have gotten really close with each others parents.

He recently bought a house back in July and as a result I’ve been working 13 hour shifts as a surgical assistant while he works at a computer all day. Due to me working long hours on my feet I’ve been too tired to have sex on the weekdays and now he is blaming his porn addiction on me.

I need marriage advice. My husband and I have been together for five years. We have a toddler and another baby on the way.

There’s a woman he used to date before me. Early in our relationship, I noticed he had searched for her on Instagram. A few years later, she called him at night, and he told me he shut it down, saying he was happily taken.

I’m a 32-year-old man, and I’m struggling with a situation that’s honestly breaking my heart: my wife—who’s 43—barely lets me spend time alone with our six-year-old daughter. She keeps our daughter close, almost as if she can’t stand the idea of us having our own father-daughter relationship. Any time my daughter shows affection toward me, it’s like a switch flips in my wife, and she finds a way to insert herself between us or to keep us from spending time together.