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I’m a 29-year-old woman, and I’ve been married to my husband, who’s 32, for two years now. In that time, he’s hit me three times, leaving bruises on my body. Even though I try to defend myself, he just leaves me crying and in a lot of pain.
He always blames me, saying it’s my fault for talking back when he says hurtful things.
When things are good, he’s incredibly sweet, treating me like a princess. But if he gets angry about anything, he completely loses it.
Let’s talk about something that can wreck your relationship faster than you can say “TMI” – airing your dirty laundry. You know, that urge to spill every gritty detail of your relationship drama to anyone who’ll listen. Spoiler alert: it’s a bad idea.
Now, I’m all for honesty and open communication. But there’s a massive difference between being authentic and turning your relationship into a reality TV show for your friends and family.
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I (28m) didn’t get invited to my closest friend’s (28m) wedding. I was one of the first people he told about the proposal before it happened. I thought I had a good relationship with his fiance too.
We went on trips together, never had any drama between us and golf together quite a bit. Our friend group has about 5 of us that have all been close friends since middle school. They all were invited except for me. I didn’t get an invite when they sent them out last fall and I thought it was just well understood I would be there.
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Getting to the next level – whether in your career, relationships, or personal growth – isn’t about doing more of the same. It’s about evolving into a new version of yourself. Think of it as leveling up in the game of life.
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I (21F) have been with my partner (22M) for 4 years now. He graduated high school 4 years ago, and hasn’t had a single job since (besides one summer job). Doesn’t want to go to college either.
The first two years of our relationship he was streaming, which I was fine with for a bit. Then, no progress was showing and I asked him to get a job on the side, and he could still stream. Nothing. Next two years to now were focused on starting a business he didn’t want. Again, after a few months, no progress was showing, so I asked him to get a job on the side. Nope!
Something happened between my girlfriend (F25) and I (M24) last week, and I’m trying my best to forget about the situation, but it keeps coming back into my mind and I think I may need some opinions on this situation due to the slight burden it has been for me.
My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I am very fortunate to visit her every month due to a generous work schedule I have. Last week I landed at her city of residence and met up with her in the evening. As the night carried on, we went back to our place, things got hot and heavy, so naturally we went to the bedroom.
Upon entering the bedroom, my girlfriend points to the light switch on the wall and tells me “turn off the lights”. Not a problem, done. Clothes begin to fall off afterwards, and once she takes her bra off, I close my eyes and begin kissing her chest, and then she tells me “give me some hickeys around my breasts”.
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Let’s talk about gifts. Not the heartwarming, fuzzy kind you see in commercials, but the complex, sometimes uncomfortable reality of gift-giving in our lives. Specifically, let’s dive into a truth that’s often overlooked: a gift is only truly a gift when it comes with no strings attached.
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Let’s talk about something we all experience but rarely discuss openly: the nature of our emotional pain. It’s a universal human experience, yet we often feel alone in our struggles. But here’s the thing – there’s more to our distress than meets the eye.
Thirty nine year old guy here. As I look around at my married friends and just the general public where I live I see a lot of people with expensive stuff. I live in a modest suburb in Upstate New York. I do OK. I make around $90,000 a year. I go to sporting events for my brothers kids. These parents all are driving $100K+ Tahoes and Escalades and Land Rovers. Multiple kids in multiple activites. All have nice clothes, expensive shoes… I see it everywhere and I don’t live in a pricey area.
Turned 40 and it just hit me… I need to build up my 401k… I have about 7k in it right now after one year at this company. I make about 60k a year and have no debt besides mortgage. I have a 3% match so if I bump it up to 10% of my salary will I be ok at age 67 or 27 more years? Should I panic or will I be sitting pretty at 67… I have been working my whole life.
First off, take a deep breath. You’re not alone in this boat, and it’s never too late to start getting your financial house in order. Let’s break this down.
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