Our rent is only 450, but we still can’t afford it. My husband rides a bike 20 miles a day just to go to work. I can’t find a job, we are 750 in the hole with our landlord. I’ve tried loans and cards. Nothing. We can’t afford to live anymore
edit: We both have addictions that we both don’t want to get rid of. I don’t mean crack or meth. I mean like weed, vapes, beer and cigarettes.
What is an Emotional Affair?
An emotional affair occurs when one partner redirects emotional intimacy, romantic feelings, and often sexual chemistry to someone outside the primary relationship. It’s a breach of trust that doesn’t necessarily involve physical intimacy but can be equally, if not more, threatening to the stability of a committed relationship.
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The Most Charming Small Town in Every U.S. State – Afar
The Crypto Signal Group Scam: How It Works and Why You Should Run – Shield and Fortify
24 Childhood Memories We Can All Relate To – Ned Hardy
For $40 you can pick up a useful folding knife that will perform like a $150 Benchmade – Amazon
5 Reasons My 90-Year-Old Grandma was Smiling on Her Deathbed – Marc and Angel
The adults celebrating child-free lives – BBC
Dave Grohl Announces The Birth Of A Daughter Outside Marriage – Instagram
A Beginner’s Guide to Reading and Enjoying Poetry – The Conversation
He is the Shoe Surgeon to LeBron, Usher and other stars. Nike says he’s gone too far – LA Times
The 7 Worst Things About Having a High IQ – Linkiest
Apple’s AirPods Pro 2 could forever change how people access hearing aids – The Verge
20 Spine-Chilling Stories in Just Two Sentences – Ned Hardy
Is (877) 613-7414 a Scam Number or Not? – Shield and Fortify
It is an amazing achievement to condense the entire base of human scientific knowledge into 478 pages, in such a way that they can be understood by the layman, but Bill Bryson has done it – Amazon
What I Discovered About Happiness in Finland – Outside
How Parents’ Trauma Leaves Biological Traces in Children – Scientific American
Seeking tourists: Four countries that are actively welcoming travellers – BBC
How Small Investments Make a Big Impact Over Time – Visual Capitalist
How Long to Keep Every Important Financial Document – Life Hacker
The Dumping Grounds
Picture of the Day
U.S. Marine: Battle of Saipan , 1944
There’s something profound about the image of Angelo Klonis. Born in Greece on the island of Kephalonia, his journey to this moment is anything but typical, yet it embodies a deep, almost primal drive for freedom and survival—something that transcends citizenship or birthright. In the mid-1930s, Klonis smuggled himself into the United States from the port of Piraeus, driven by the need to support his family back home. A stowaway on a ship, he was a man in search of opportunity in a nation that, despite its flaws, symbolized hope for the oppressed.
What’s So Great About The Ending of ‘Fantasia’?
There’s something hypnotic about the end of Fantasia, specifically how Night on Bald Mountain slides into Ave Maria. On paper, the idea sounds borderline absurd—Mussorgsky’s chaotic nightmare of demons and fire giving way to Schubert’s celestial serenity. But somehow, it works. Actually, it more than works; it becomes this transcendent moment where everything the movie has been trying to say crystallizes.
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How The Twilight Zone’s ‘Miniature’ Predicted the Emotional Trap of AI Companions
At first glance, The Twilight Zone’s “Miniature” might seem like a quirky story about a lonely man fascinated by a dollhouse, but in today’s world, it reads like an eerie precursor to a growing trend—emotional retreat into AI companions. Charley Parkes, the episode’s protagonist, isn’t just some harmless misfit. He’s the prototype for those who, unable to navigate real-world relationships, retreat into fantasy worlds where their companions are perfect, obedient, and always available. Swap out the Victorian dollhouse for a chatbot or virtual girlfriend, and Charley feels disturbingly contemporary.
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“Girlfriend wants to do a sexual favor for her friend to make him feel better, what do I do?”
So this guy, who we’ll call B, has been friends with my girlfriend for a while. She had told me that two years ago they exchanged nudes because he came to her for help in taking better dick pics and she sent him nudes to make him more comfortable (her words). They however haven’t spoken in a while.
Well recently his dad passed away and my girlfriend found out about it, and ever since she’s been trying to be there for him. I just found all these next parts so I may get them wrong but here’s a rough outline of what happened.
“My wife commented on my penis size and it’s now ending our marriage”
34M & 34F married for 6 years. Everything was going good until my wife made a comment about my penis size last year.
I didn’t care at first but after a while problems started to occur. First thing is I couldn’t get hard at all for her. I could think of other women and get hard for them but not her.
She apologized right after her comment but it didn’t work. I went to 2 different therapists this year and we also went to marriage counseling but my thing will just not work with her.
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Jenny Curran Is Not Your Villain, No Matter How Hard You Try – Ned Hardy
Found a USB Drive? Here’s Why You Should Never Plug It In – Shield and Fortify
If you have a clogged sink or bathtub drain get a sink plunger. Yes, a sink plunger is different from a toilet plunger…fill until plunger is submerged,. then plunge like you would a clogged toilet – Amazon
The ways Sugar Babies navigate two roles: lover and employee – Psyche
22 Family Adventures For The Bold – Fatherly
You don’t need to be a ’90s kid to know: Millennial nostalgia is now driving culture – Fast Co
Giving Your Partner the Silent Treatment Isn’t Just Petty—It’s Actually Really Toxic – Self
How to Stop Overthinking Your Happiness – Greater Good
The Best Hack for Airport Lounge Access Will Probably Piss off Some People – Fodors
‘No Politics Allowed’: These Americans Are Avoiding the Conversation at All Costs – WSJ
The 10 wealthiest sports franchise owners in America – Quartz
Harvey Weinstein Rushed to Hospital For Heart Surgery – Hollywood Reporter
Excellent book to give to your kids….This is an awesome field manual for implementing a growth mindset. It teaches kids not to accept their perceived limitations and shows the path to a lifetime of discipline – Amazon
The precedent-setting push to hold parents responsible for school shootings – VOX
Alien Spaceships Could Be Detected Using Gravitational Waves – Wired
Amazon is allowing Audible narrators to clone themselves with AI – The Verge
I grew up in Paris. Here are the 12 biggest mistakes I see tourists make when they visit – Insider
The 20 Best New Restaurants of 2024 – Bon Appetit
Seven Grammar and Language Red Flags to Help You Spot Scam Emails and Texts – Life Hacker