We’ve all been there. Someone says or does something that just gets under your skin and pisses you off. Your blood starts to boil, and your first instinct is to lash out, to fight back, to make them feel as bad as they’re making you feel.
Linkage
16 Fascinating Photos Collected From History – Ned Hardy
These headphones are an uutsanding value for the price. Very strong mids and highs, and the bass is way better than it should be – Amazon
8 Best Games To Play When You’re Burnt Out – The Gamer
5 Mason Jar Salad Recipes for Healthy Lunches All Week Long – HUM Nutrition
How to (Try to) Quit (Almost) Anything – Shondaland
The NBA’s No. 1 Pick Is Both a Blessing and a Curse – The Ringer
Used Teslas are getting very cheap, but buying one can be risky – ARS Technica
Fed’s preferred inflation metric remains at 2.7% in April – Financial Times
Did You Know These 12 Richest Towns in America? – Nerdable
To feel ‘comfortable,’ Americans think they need a $233,000 salary and nearly $1.3 million for retirement – CNBC
Nine Movies that you did not know that the Villain Really Wins – Linkiest
Five Keys to Managing Intrusive Thoughts – Greater Good
Tame your unruly pile of grocery bags with this intuitive bag dispenser- Amazon
Big Milk has taken over American schools – VOX
North Korea sends balloons full of manure and trash over the border to South Korea – ABC
My mom, 91, has a $5 million portfolio, but leaves her passwords lying around the house. Could a nefarious caregiver steal her money? – Market Watch
Visualizing the 5 Most Common Cybersecurity Mistakes – Visual Capitalist
The ‘world’s most livable city’ has a proven, 100-year-old approach to affordable housing – Upworthy
This ‘Godmode’ ChatGPT jailbreak worked so well, OpenAI had to kill it – BGR
The 11 Movies That Paved The Way for Ridley Scott’s Alien – Den of Geek
The Dumping Grounds
How Did Germany De-Radicalize Its People After The Fall of The Nazi Party?
(Force confrontation: German soldiers react to footage of concentration camps, 1945.)
The process of denazification and the trials of various war criminals in Germany was enormous. The Nazi party had 8.5 million members by the end of the war. Somewhere in the region of 18 million people served in the German armed forces during the war, many of whom had committed atrocities and war crimes. 17.2 million people voted for the Nazi party in the 1933 election. Almost 22 million had been members of the German Labour Front, the Nazi replacement for the Trade Unions. Perhaps as many as 45 million individuals were members of or associated with organs of the Nazi party. As such, the process of denazification would have to be conducted on an epic scale.
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“Girlfriend hasn’t paid for anything in 3 months”
I 35m have been dating a 38f for a little over 3 months.
On the 1st date she offered to split the bill. Since then we have gone out quite a but and she has never paid for anything. We have spent many whole weekends together and I don’t mind paying more than 50% but she has not offered to pay at all since the first date.
At one point she bought an rv and for 2 weekends I did work on it for her while we spent time together and thought it was a bit rude she didnt at least offer to buy lunch to show appreciation.
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“I ghosted my boyfriend of three years”
Because it was the easiest thing for me to do.
He was not abusive. He didn’t cheat on me. He was loving and supportive and communicative and trusting our entire relationship. Probably one of the sweetest guys I’ve ever dated.
Unfortunately, he lost his job and became depressed and miserable to be around and I was no longer attracted to him. Meanwhile, I got a new, high pressure job after being miserable at my old one for five years and was dreading dealing with his issues. I wanted a new start. A really fun and attractive guy I’ve had a long-standing crush on showed interest in me and I went for it.
Sorry, Not Sorry: Why Over-Apologizing Is Hurting You (And How to Stop)
Today I want to talk about a habit that so many of us have fallen into without even realizing it: apologizing for everything, even when we’ve done nothing wrong.
You know what I’m talking about. You bump into someone and immediately blurt out “I’m so sorry!” even though they weren’t looking where they were going. Your boss gives you a new assignment and you respond with “Sorry, I’ll get on that right away!” as if the work is an imposition. Sound familiar?
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Your Partner is Not a Mind Reader
Here’s the scenario: something’s bugging you in your relationship. Maybe you wish your partner would be more affectionate, or help out more around the house, or plan more date nights. Whatever it is, you haven’t told them directly. Instead, you just feel increasingly annoyed that they aren’t doing the thing you secretly want them to do. Sound familiar?
Linkage
Lets Take A Stroll Through The Art Museum – Ned Hardy
Why You Should Never Let a Stranger Borrow Your Phone – Shield and Fortify
This is a great mouse for work and productivity. It’s comfy to use for hours on end, the dual scroll ability is great, the main scroll wheel is amazing – Amazon
Could You Survive the Black Death, the Sack of Rome and Other Historical Catastrophes? – Smithsonian
Boxer Tayden Beltran gets challenged by his former high school bully – Reddit
5 people who left civilization behind to live alone – Linkiest
A happy, fulfilling life is impossible if you don’t love yourself: Self-love is at the root of everything of value in a man’s life–relationships, health, and overall contentment.- Knowledge For Men
25 Most Beautiful Places in Europe — From Colorful Small Towns to Secret Beaches – Travel and Leisure
The Most Underrated Sci-Fi Movies of the 1960s – Den of Geek
The Inner Monologue Of People At Work Today: Office Thoughts – Ned Hardy
These magnetic screen doors are great for the summers. They keep flying bugs out, let in the breeze, and your pets and kids can go in and out as they please without worrying about keeping doors shut – Amazon
Do Compliments Make You Cringe? Here’s Why – Ascend
How to Check Your Wi-Fi Network for Suspicious Devices – Make us of
10 Bad Habits That Breed Resentment In Marriage – Fatherly
Whoever sold him that case of beer is wrong af (video) – Hoodville
The Pre-Inspection: What to Look for in a House Before Making an Offer – Art of Manliness
10 Reasons People Get Lost in the Wild – Outdoor Life
These photographs capture the American struggle during The Great Depression, 1929-1940 – Rare Historical Photos
How Saudi Arabia is buying the world – New Statesman
