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Author: Theodore Lee

Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity,  you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.
Life Advice

Date Who They Are, Not Who You Hope They’ll Become

It’s one of the oldest traps in the book. You meet someone who’s almost everything you’re looking for. There’s a flicker of brilliance, a hint of what they could become with just a little more time, a little more “work.” Maybe they talk about their big dreams, or you see flashes of kindness and maturity beneath layers of chaos. And you find yourself thinking, If only they’d just… or Once they finally…

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Links

Linkage

19 Happy Facts To Balance Out All The Negative Crap You Hear In The News All Day – Ned Hardy

Can Ken Burns Get Everyone to Agree on America’s Origin Story? – WSJ

16 Easy Ways to Create More Meaningful Memories With the People You Love – Life Hacker

The Advice Therapists Give Couples Who Are Constantly Fighting – Fatherly

It’s insane how useful this portable power station is. It has flashlights, an air compressor, charging ports for plugins/usbs and it will jump a car 4-6 times before it needs recharged – Amazon

How to Distinguish Between Wants and Needs – Becoming Minimalist

Where You Get Your Sense of Self-Worth – Zen Habits

When Can You Legally Shoot Someone on Your Property? – Life Hacker

20 Ways to Teach Kids How to Save Money Responsibly at Any Age – Money Crasher

How to Create a Positive Self-Image in Life and Relationships – Knowledge For Men

22 Fascinating Photos Collected From History – Ned Hardy

If you’re considering stepping up your coffee grinding game without breaking the bank, this manual grinder is recommended by coffee aficionados – Amazon

This 3-Ingredient Marinade Works for Meat, Fish, and Veg – Bon Appetit

The 50 Best Whisky Bars in the World – Inside Hook

Men Are Telling Women What Sex Feels Like From Their Perspective – Reddit

The 6 Most Notorious Post-Cold War Spies In America – Linkiest

Life Experiences

What’s It Like To Date a Golddigger

Back when I was in my twenties, I thought I had hit the romantic jackpot.

Her name isn’t important—let’s call her Julie. Julie was one of those women who didn’t just turn heads; she made traffic stop. A walking, talking fantasy. Long legs, exaggerated curves, hair like a shampoo commercial, and a smile that made you forget whatever sentence you were trying to finish. The kind of beauty that makes your brain glitch for a moment.

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Advice Column

“How do I convince my friend to not go back to his cheating ex?”

My friend just found out his wife has been cheating on him. To make matters worse, this isn’t the first time she’s crossed a line—she’s been emotionally checked out for years, hasn’t worked a day since they got married, and doesn’t lift a finger around the house. She’s shameless about the affair, and somehow still finds ways to make him feel like the problem.

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Life Experiences

What It’s Like Growing Up in Foster Care

If you ask me how many homes I lived in, I honestly couldn’t tell you. Was it twelve? Fifteen? More? After a while, they all blur together. Each one was supposed to be a “fresh start,” but when you’re a kid in foster care, that phrase loses meaning real quick. Fresh starts just mean more garbage bags to cram your life into. And that’s how it is, by the way—your whole childhood, your entire sense of safety and stability, reduced to a few battered trash bags and whatever you can grab when it’s time to go.

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Links

Linkage

The Scheme That Broke the Texas Lottery – New Yorker

Feed Your Brain With These 15 Fascinating Facts – Ned Hardy

One of the best ways to store your knives in the kitchen. It is very easy to install and has a VERY strong magnet. 10/10 – Amazon\

CEOs Start Saying the Quiet Part Out Loud: AI Will Wipe Out Jobs – WSJ

Cheating husband gets caught red handed (video) – Reddit

Meet Dr. Emily Grace, your AI Therapist who will compassionately guide you through your life’s problem – ChatGPT

10 Brutal Facts about Traveling West in a Covered Wagon – Listverse

50 Best Science Fiction TV Shows of All Time – Rolling Stone

What multilevel marketing schemes are really selling – VOX

Where Does One U.S. Tax Dollar Go? – Visual Capitalist

A Damn Fine Collection of Fascinating Photos – NedHardy

There’s no better technique for rapidly washing and drying greens, and it also works for berries and other fruits, vegetables, mushrooms, and anything else you want to dry rapidly – Amazon

What to Do If You Get a Sudden Financial Windfall – Art of Manliness

25 Small, Simple Ways To Be A Better Partner Right Now – Fatherly

Do These 5 Emotionally Intelligent Things Within 5 Minutes Of Meeting Someone – Fast Co

12 Remarkable Survival Stories, and What We Should Learn From Them – Outdoor Life

The 15 Richest Neighborhoods in America on Google Street View – Linkiest