“My husband lied about paying mortgage for almost a year.”
My husband (41m) and I (34f) have our finances pretty separate. We each have our own accounts and the only thing in both of our names is our house and his car. He makes about 2x what I make and we split expenses up in a way we both felt was fair and manageable for each of us while both working on our own personal credit card debt we brought into the relationship. One of the things he covers is the mortgage in full. He works in accounting and I work in education, I have never been great at managing my money so he does my monthly budget for me and has access to all of my accounts and knows what my debts are.
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“Found out my Girlfriend of 1.5 years has been cheating all along”
GF of 1.5 years fell asleep with her phone unlocked while I was still working, took her phone to plug it in and a notification popped up, some guy I’ve never heard about asking if she was alone. I went through the chats and it was it turns out she’s been hooking up with that guy for a few months, during her “girls nights”.
I dug deeper, checking any other male dm’s. Turns out that for the whole duration of our “perfect” relationship she’s been hooking up with a variety of different men. Some where total strangers she met on instagram, others were long time “friends” that she occasionally fucked, there was even a married guy that she’s been fucking regularly. She was also disrespecting me and sending them our private chats, complaining and seeking comfort when we had a fight or something didn’t go well for a few days.
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Why Didn’t They Just Bomb the Beaches of Normandy Before Carrying Out the D-Day Landing?
When we delve into the strategic and operational decisions surrounding the D-Day landings, the question of why the beaches of Normandy were not bombarded more effectively prior to the invasion becomes more complex. The reality is, the Allies did indeed launch an extensive bombardment campaign, but several factors influenced its perceived effectiveness.
Picture of the Day
Taxis to Hell – and Back – Into the Jaws of Death, June 6, 1944
The sea was a blackened maw, a cold abyss stretching out under a sky heavy with foreboding. In the belly of the beast, men huddled, their breaths a symphony of fear and resolve. The ramp dropped, and the world tilted into chaos, a maelstrom of water, metal, and blood. The soldiers spilled forth, each step a defiance of the darkness that sought to swallow them whole.
Finding Peace in the Evolution of Relationships
Let’s be real for a second… People change. You change. I change. We all change. And that’s okay. In fact, it’s more than okay—it’s a natural, inevitable part of this crazy thing we call life.
But here’s the thing that trips most people up: They expect everything else to stay the same even as they themselves transform. They think their friendships from high school should be just as tight ten years later. They assume family dynamics will never shift. They believe their romantic relationships should stay in the honeymoon phase forever.
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Linkage
How a Dose of MDMA Transformed a White Supremacist – BBC
16 Fascinating Photos You Must See – Ned Hardy
iPhone Stolen? Be Prepared for These Scammer Tactics – Shield and Fortify
NBA Nears $76 Billion TV Deal, a Defining Moment for Media and Sports – WSJ
If you are traveling, this travel pouch has ample room for all your valuables, is comfortable to wear and prevents pickpockets from getting to your stuff – Amazon
How to Mix Cardio and Strength Training for the Best Results – HUM Nutrition
20 Best Sports Movies of All-Time – SNIP Daily
No physics? No problem. AI weather forecasting is already making huge strides – ARS Technica
Louisiana lawmakers approve surgical castration option for those guilty of sex crimes against kids – AP News
It’s not just JLo: Why big musical acts can’t sell out concerts anymore – Business Insider
15 Best WWE PPVs Ever – Den of Geek
Seven Ways to Be an Emotionally Intelligent Leader – Greater Good
Reading Between the Lines – ‘Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind’ – Ned Hardy
These are the perfect gift for someone entering college because they provide a focused, distraction-free environment essential for studying and thriving in busy campus life. – Amazon
Hikaru’s Lightning Speed Chess Calculation – Reddit
Why Boys Today Struggle With Human Connection – NY Times
The 50 Best Albums Of 2024 So Far – Stereogum
Why Autistic People Seek AI Companionship – Scientific American
This Seller Thinks $38,000 For A 2000 Honda Civic Si Is Totally Reasonable – Jalopnik
40 of the Most Rewatchable Movies Ever Made – Life Hacker
The Dumping Grounds
What to Say Instead of ‘Hey’ or ‘How Are You Doing’ on Online Dating
Hey there! Tired of those same old boring openers on dating apps? I feel you. “Hey” and “How are you doing?” are about as exciting as watching paint dry. If you want to stand out from the sea of generic messages and actually catch your match’s interest, you gotta step up your game.
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San Diego Officer Resigns After Inappropriate Backseat Behavior with Detainee
A San Diego police officer, Anthony Hair, has resigned from his position following an investigation into an August 2023 incident where he was found locked in the backseat of his patrol car with a female detainee. The incident came to light after newly released bodycam footage showed the woman propositioning Hair for sex.
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