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Author: Theodore Lee

Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity,  you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.
Poll Of The Day

Poll of the Day

Met my girlfriend in college, we’ve been together about a year. We both graduated in the spring and just last week started moving into a new apartment together. When I was helping her pack her apartment, I found a box with some sex toys in it. I knew that she had a vibrator and a dildo, but we never used them in bed so I hadn’t seen them.

It was very clear that this dildo wasn’t store bought, it was made from one of those cock mold kits. I pressed her about it a bit and she admitted that her ex had made it for her. At first she tried to play it off like she doesn’t use it, but eventually admitted that she uses it a few times a month.

She doesn’t want to throw it away because she says she likes the material more than other ones she’s tried. If it were just a regular dildo I wouldn’t care. To me, it’s not just a piece of rubber. They were together for two years in college, she was very in love with him, and he broke up with her. I know emotionally she’s totally over him but it feels like she still wants him sexually.

She says I’m being possessive and to stop being jealous of a piece of rubber. I feel like she’s basically been imagining having sex with him several times a month since we’ve been together. Am I just being irrational here or would other men have a problem with this too?

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Relationships

Signs That a Man Is in an Abusive Relationship

  • He becomes more withdrawn from friends and family

  • He actively avoids talking about himself and changes the subject if people try to ask. Other than a generic “doing ok” or equivalent, he will conspicuously avoid talking about any of his personal life (unless you can get him onto a topic like a hobby that he’s really into. But general personal life / relationship stuff? That’s often a no-go).

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Finances

The Art of Gifting, Not Lending: Why Money and Family Don’t Always Mix

Family. The very word conjures up images of unconditional love, support, and shared histories. It’s also, sometimes, the trickiest terrain for navigating finances. One area notoriously fraught with tension? Loans.

The sentiment “Never loan money to family. Gift it but don’t loan it” may sound harsh, but hear me out. It’s not about denying help or severing ties. It’s about protecting yourself, preserving relationships, and approaching support with clear-eyed wisdom.

Here’s why gifting might be the more sustainable solution:

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Links

Linkage

Answer These 15 Yes-or-No Questions to Help Evaluate the State of Your Relationship – Psychology Today

Liquid Television: The Surreal Oasis of Early 90s MTV – Ned Hardy

This dish rack is a lifesaver if you have a small kitchen. It’s easy to store and it’s much stronger than it looks—you can easily leave several pots and pans on it and it’ll hold strong – Amazon

We Asked People Who Retired Young: How’s It Going? – VICE

Why Mariah Carey’s ‘All I Want for Christmas is You’ became so popular — and stayed that way – AP News

8 Foods That Are Considered Bad Luck on New Year’s – Mental Floss

He Might Have Been Pope. Instead, He May Go to Prison – WSJ

I Swiped Tinder for Days in the Name of Research—These 5 Tips Will Make Your Bio Stand Out – GQ

How to Tell an Employee They’re Not Ready for a Promotion – HBR

JPMorgan Is in a Fight Over Its Client’s Lost $50 Million Fortune – Bloomberg

FDA approves first CRISPR therapy—here’s how it works against sickle cell – ARS Technica

Ohtani’s big bet on inflation and the U.S. dollar – Axios

After Back-To-Back Losses, Chiefs Replace Taylor Swift With Selena Gomez – Babylon Bee

This memory foam cushion, that helps reduce lower back pain and tailbone pain, is perfect for an office chair or use it as a car seat cushion – Amazon

Whatever Happened to Actor Nathan Bexton from ‘Go’? – Ned Hardy

Senate Bill Aims to Revamp the Concert Ticketing System – Pitchfork

The Boy and the Heron treats growing up with the seriousness it deserves – VOX

Mental Models: How to Train Your Brain to Think in New Ways – James Clear

Albert Einstein’s Strict List of Conditions for his Wife to Follow – The Vintage News

I’m Begging You to Use a VPN at Hotels – Life Hacker

Life Advice

Remember, You Are Not Powerless

In the whirlwind of daily life, it’s easy to feel lost in the tide. Challenges arise, setbacks occur, and doubts creep in, whispering insidious messages of powerlessness. We may find ourselves questioning our abilities, believing that the world is against us, and that we are merely passengers on a predetermined journey. But amidst this seemingly insurmountable darkness, a powerful truth emerges: You are not powerless.

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Confessions

Confession of the Day

My brother (14m) jacked off to my anime figure in my room and my dad caught him while i was at the movie theaters

So about a week ago my friend bought me a new figure (bicute bunny super sonico).Everyone in my family made fun of me for owning something like that but i didnt really care i thought she was cute.

Also i think it’s important to note my brother has been grounded for months with no access to any electronics.

Yesterday I went on a date yesterday with my bf (17m) to watch the new Studio Ghbili movie.When i came back my dad told me he had something to talk to me about i got worried because he looked kinda scared.

He then proceeded to tell me i had to get rid of my bunny figure because he walked in on my brother doing weird stuff with her in my room while i was gone.

– makers69

Finances

Why Being on the Same Page Financially is Crucial for a Healthy Relationship

Many couples shy away from discussing finances, assuming it’s a less-than-romantic topic. However, ignoring money matters can have detrimental effects on a relationship, often leading to frustration, resentment, and even conflict. So, why is being on the same page financially so crucial for a healthy relationship?

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