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Author: Theodore Lee

Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity,  you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.
Life Experiences

What Is Doctor Assisted Death Like?

An immediate family member last year was diagnosed with bronchiolitis obliterans (popcorn lungs) with an unknown cause to it. It is something that is not curable. As someone who was a daily part of my life it was hard to watch the condition progress.

His condition progressively got worse and he was transferred to a palativcare physicality a couple of weeks ago. He wasn’t happy living the way he was living and slowly dying. The doctors discussed with him the option of assisted death… something he did not know about, and myself I thought was still not finalized in Canada yet, so it was a surprise to hear this.

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Life Experiences

Confessions Of Dudes On A No-Fap / Porn Free Journey

no fap confessions

Currently I am on an 200 day streak I think. I haven’t kept count anymore, because how you spend your days matter more than a number.

2 years ago I was depressed, had terrible social anxiety and was very unhappy with my life, only sitting inside on my PC. You can read everything back in my history. I was sad not having friends or a relationship.

Currently I have a few friends, with whom I sometimes go out. I go to festivals alone to socialize. I have had my first job, first kiss, went on a few dates, no longer a virgin, a girlfriend, I am more social, better self esteem, stopped therapy since I outgrew it (according to the professionals) and probably more that I can’t remember. A lot of good stuff has happened.

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Advice Column

“Am I wrong for just having fun and trying to get people dancing at a wedding?”

My friend and co-worker was invited to his close friend’s wedding and received a plus one. Since he had just broken up with his girlfriend, he didn’t want to go alone and be seen alone in photos on social media so he asked if I would go with him.

I love weddings and didn’t have plans for the weekend and always wanted to see this particular venue in person anyway as I always pictured it for myself so i said yes. I didn’t know the bride and groom but I am aware of wedding etiquette such as don’t wear white, don’t upstage the bride, be polite, etc.

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Life Advice

How ‘I’ Statements Save Relationships

Most relationships don’t implode because of one massive betrayal. They fall apart slowly, quietly, through a thousand small moments where two people feel misunderstood, unappreciated, or straight-up attacked.

And here’s the uncomfortable truth: a lot of those moments come down to how we talk to each other.

Specifically, how we fight.

Because let’s be honest. When something bothers you, your instinct isn’t to calmly express your feelings like some enlightened monk. Your instinct is to go on offense.

“You never listen.”

“You always do this.”

“Why are you like this?”

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Links

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5 Historic Photos That Speak Volumes – Ned Hardy

This is one of those “why didn’t I buy this sooner” tools that makes cleaning showers, tubs, grout, floors, baseboards, windows, decks, siding, and even outdoor furniture way faster and way less exhausting. – Amazon

They Were YouTube’s First Stars. Here’s What They Wish They’d Known. – NYTimes

Val Kilmer’s AI resurrection is a grim omen for the future of movies – GQ Magazine

The Shocking Secrets of Madison Square Garden’s Surveillance Machine – Archive.ph

Singer D4vd arrested in the murder of teen months after she was found dead in trunk of his Tesla – NBC News

29 Memes That Tell It Like It Is – Ned Hardy

If you are looking for a smart thermostat, this one keeps temperatures more consistent with room sensors, integrates well with smart home systems, and gives you more control and data than competitors – Amazon

‘American Pie’ Star Shannon Elizabeth Says She Joined OnlyFans After Hollywood “Controlled the Narrative” of Her Career – Hollywood Reporter

iTunes Gamed Again with Another AI Singer at Number 1 – Showbiz411

More Americans are buying groceries using buy now, pay later: Survey – The Hill

Inside the end of the Ja Morant era in Memphis – ESPN

84 Feel-Good Photos That Make People Stop And Appreciate Their Families – Linkiest

Padres finalizing sale for MLB record $3.9 billion – Reuters

Life Experiences

A Day In The Life of a Porn Addict

day in the life of a porn addict

The sun rises over a clear blue sky, marking the beginning of a beautiful Saturday morning. Six hours later, I wake up in my room with terrible breath and a bit of a headache. The images of last night are still fresh in my memory. My group of friends met this nice group of girls at the club, and one of my friends hit it off with one of the girls. Me, I did not even try, as usual. Always too shy. Too scared to face rejection and too insecure to picture any other outcome. The memory of the night leaves me horny and feeling bad about myself: a perfect combination for watching porn.

It’s 4:25 pm when my parents leave the house.

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Advice Column

“What if your only goal in life is have big house and luxury cars?”

I’m a 24-year-old guy who has always dreamed of having a nice house and luxury cars. I work and make good money, but I don’t have any hobbies or much else going on in my life. I’ve never been in a relationship and don’t have many friends. On weekends, I either catch up on tasks or think about my next big business idea.

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