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My husband and I have been married for over nine years, and we have never had penetrative sex. He says the idea makes him uncomfortable.
We got married young in a Christian environment where sex before marriage was not allowed. He went straight from living with his parents to living with me. On our wedding night, he said there was too much pressure to have sex, and I understood. But even during our honeymoon, whenever I asked him to use a condom, he would immediately lose arousal and shut down.
About a year ago, my wife confessed that she gave a guy oral sex on a night out. We have looser boundaries than most couples, but this clearly crossed them. There’s a small chance her drink was spiked, but we don’t know for sure.
We went to marriage therapy, and I decided to stay for the sake of our family. I don’t feel like I can forgive it, though, because that would make it feel like it was okay.
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My husband is planning a world tour with his friend. It would be his first time doing something like this. We have three young kids, ages 8, 5, and 2, and I would be home with them while he travels.
He says he doesn’t want to travel with kids because it’s too hectic, so instead of planning something for us as a family, he wants to do this trip without us. He keeps explaining that he’ll be using points for everything, so he’s not technically spending money on flights or hotels. He wants to fly first class because the points are expiring this year and he wants to experience it.
I’m 30 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for six years and living together for five. Before we dated, we were friends for two years. I love him a lot. He’s my best friend and I’ve always seen a future with him.
From the very beginning, I’ve been clear that I don’t want kids. I don’t hate kids, I just don’t want to be a mom. I’ve never hidden that. It’s something I’ve talked about openly, even with our friend group.
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About a month ago, an old friend of my fiancée came to me and said my one year old daughter might not be mine. She told me that when my fiancée first found out she was pregnant, she admitted there was a chance the baby belonged to another man she had been sleeping with at the time.
This completely contradicted everything I thought I knew about my fiancée. I’ve known her for five years and believed she was faithful, honest, and loving. But the doubt stuck with me, so I got a paternity test. The results came back, and I am not the father.
I’m 22 and I’ve been sleeping with a 50 year old married woman, and I can’t seem to stop. I know it’s wrong, but I’ve never experienced anything like this before. She’s been married longer than I’ve been alive. I started pursuing her when I was 18, and this year it finally happened.
At the same time, I’m talking to a woman my age who is honestly amazing. She’s everything I could want. I’ve always been a bit rough around the edges and hard to love, but she accepts me.
A few days ago, I had a job event where I had to go alone and spend the night away. My girlfriend mentioned she might have a girls’ night while I was gone but wasn’t too sure yet.
Anyway, the next day after my event, I texted her that I was driving home. She didn’t respond because her phone was dead and she was still sleeping.
When I was almost home, she called me and asked where I was. After telling her I was almost home, she informed me that there were three guys I had never met or heard of at our place and that I should come in and meet them.
I’m struggling with what to do about a longtime friend.
We’ve known each other since we were kids, and he used to be one of the closest people in my life. But over time, things have changed. I’ve grown up, gotten married, and built a more stable life, while he hasn’t really moved forward. He still lives at home, drinks heavily, uses drugs, and seems stuck in the same cycle.
We drifted apart for about eight months, partly because I chose to create distance. Every time we talked, I felt drained. The conversations lacked depth and often revolved around his habits. It felt like I was putting in energy without getting anything meaningful back.
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I am a 40 year old woman and I have decided not to attend my daughter’s wedding.
I already have plans at my church that were scheduled months in advance. I take my commitments seriously and I do not cancel unless I am physically ill. My daughter and my dad planned this wedding quickly because they do not approve of her living situation. They knew I had these plans but scheduled it anyway. My dad suggested I move my church plans to the next day, but I prefer my church. I was also not included in any of the wedding planning, even though I am her mother.
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Looking for some advice. I recently moved all of my retirement savings into cash before the market started declining (I did not withdraw it from the IRA, just moved it out of the fund it was in). I don’t want to keep it in cash long-term, but I’m concerned about ongoing market volatility and want to place it somewhere more stable for the next few months until conditions improve.
I’m not a day trader, so I’m not looking to move money in and out frequently—I just want a low-risk option in the short term. What are my best choices for earning modest, stable returns while keeping the flexibility to reinvest when the market rebounds? My retirement is with Fidelity, if that makes any difference in available options.