I (32M) and my girl (32F) have hit a major hurdle in our relationship. She says that she is undecided on whether she wants children. I have made it clear that I want children.
She is now telling me that this is a discussion that should be made after we get married. She thinks that it’s better to be married and see if we are a good fit or not first. She says sometimes people date for many years and don’t have a lasting marriage.
She’d want to see if our marriage works first. I don’t think this is a good idea and believe I need to end this relationship.
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